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waiting for the other shoe......
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<blockquote data-quote="jbrain" data-source="post: 283901" data-attributes="member: 3450"><p>I agree with Missy--I think you are the one who needs help in this case--help to be able to come to a place within yourself where you aren't still trying to figure out how to fix your son. I agree with your husband too--I think an intervention would be a waste. Your son likes his life right now. I think you are still under the illusion that somehow you can make him not want to live the way he is living, that if you could just convince him he doesn't want to be doing this, things would be okay. A therapist could help you come to the realization that it is not your responsibility to make him change, only he can do that and he won't do that unless he wants to.</p><p></p><p>Take care,</p><p>Jane</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jbrain, post: 283901, member: 3450"] I agree with Missy--I think you are the one who needs help in this case--help to be able to come to a place within yourself where you aren't still trying to figure out how to fix your son. I agree with your husband too--I think an intervention would be a waste. Your son likes his life right now. I think you are still under the illusion that somehow you can make him not want to live the way he is living, that if you could just convince him he doesn't want to be doing this, things would be okay. A therapist could help you come to the realization that it is not your responsibility to make him change, only he can do that and he won't do that unless he wants to. Take care, Jane [/QUOTE]
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