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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 284008" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I wonder if having Susan advise her son about teeth and antibiotics and so forth might not be a step backwards for Susan? After all, every time she involves herself with him, she gets obsessed with him. Then she gets panicky and depressed. I think she should leave him alone.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Seriously? He might die walking across the street. How are you going to save him from that? What can you do to prevent that from happening? If you kept him in your home 24/7 could you prevent it? Would he stop walking across the street if he only understood how upsetting it is for you to think that he might die?</p><p></p><p>How about this? You might die. You might die tomorrow. And you'll have wasted the last ten years worrying about someone who doesn't give a rat's arse about what you think, trying to change someone you love who is happy as they are. in my humble opinion this is not about is about your wanting him to be well. It's about your wanting people to pay attention to you because of your son's poor behavior. Well he is absolutely accommodating you, isn't he?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 284008, member: 99"] I wonder if having Susan advise her son about teeth and antibiotics and so forth might not be a step backwards for Susan? After all, every time she involves herself with him, she gets obsessed with him. Then she gets panicky and depressed. I think she should leave him alone. Seriously? He might die walking across the street. How are you going to save him from that? What can you do to prevent that from happening? If you kept him in your home 24/7 could you prevent it? Would he stop walking across the street if he only understood how upsetting it is for you to think that he might die? How about this? You might die. You might die tomorrow. And you'll have wasted the last ten years worrying about someone who doesn't give a rat's arse about what you think, trying to change someone you love who is happy as they are. in my humble opinion this is not about is about your wanting him to be well. It's about your wanting people to pay attention to you because of your son's poor behavior. Well he is absolutely accommodating you, isn't he? [/QUOTE]
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