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<blockquote data-quote="Lass" data-source="post: 42802" data-attributes="member: 3645"><p>I have to wait and it is driving me mad</p><p></p><p></p><p>well since i last posted there has been a few things that has happened,my son has been excluded from school yet again due to his ooh wow behaviour refusing work,swearing,agression etc but we have not signed form under contion that he will behave and do as he is told this has been ongoing for years and we decided time it went higher we know if we sign it will be a few days and he will be excuded again,so we have had two big meetings deciding whats best for our son between schooling and at home</p><p>We told the school is not suitable for him they dont have the specialist staff to help in ,he gets anxious dont like change and kicks off due to this not his fault way he is</p><p>Puting him in a taxi to a schoolevery day that is 30 miles away was a big no ,oh my goodness hes away that far i would be stressed all time he is away in case he didnt get his taxi home or his behaviour was exteme i dont drive so no as though i can up and go get</p><p>The last option is a reidential school which has everything he needs there and everyone at meeting agreed the same,He would get schooling,socialise as he dont here he is picked on as he is diferant does my head in grrrrrrrrr,He with get pscologic help when he needs it they have someone there 24 hrs,behaviour managment,speach and laungage help,anger managment,rewards to events and loads of other things</p><p>At home i aint be coping and been very very low,one day social worker cqme out and she saw how bad he was,she got verbal abuse from him then he started hitting me,refuse to listen to anything i said he eventualy calmed down after hr</p><p>She said next time she came to visit he needs to be in forter care to give him a break and also us as a fmaily,this is still being decided waiting for a meeting to get funds</p><p></p><p>Also just heard today we have a huge meeting 1st June for high education to decide what will happen with my son,I am so dreading it as i know at some point my son will leave my home,I realy dont know how i am going to cope and have fears about how this will effect him,will he hate me,will he come home how do you cope when your son is taken away</p><p></p><p>My hubby says it is to help him and if we do it now fingers crossed he will turn into a loving child again</p><p>wished i felt same i feel like i have let him down as a mum</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lass, post: 42802, member: 3645"] I have to wait and it is driving me mad well since i last posted there has been a few things that has happened,my son has been excluded from school yet again due to his ooh wow behaviour refusing work,swearing,agression etc but we have not signed form under contion that he will behave and do as he is told this has been ongoing for years and we decided time it went higher we know if we sign it will be a few days and he will be excuded again,so we have had two big meetings deciding whats best for our son between schooling and at home We told the school is not suitable for him they dont have the specialist staff to help in ,he gets anxious dont like change and kicks off due to this not his fault way he is Puting him in a taxi to a schoolevery day that is 30 miles away was a big no ,oh my goodness hes away that far i would be stressed all time he is away in case he didnt get his taxi home or his behaviour was exteme i dont drive so no as though i can up and go get The last option is a reidential school which has everything he needs there and everyone at meeting agreed the same,He would get schooling,socialise as he dont here he is picked on as he is diferant does my head in grrrrrrrrr,He with get pscologic help when he needs it they have someone there 24 hrs,behaviour managment,speach and laungage help,anger managment,rewards to events and loads of other things At home i aint be coping and been very very low,one day social worker cqme out and she saw how bad he was,she got verbal abuse from him then he started hitting me,refuse to listen to anything i said he eventualy calmed down after hr She said next time she came to visit he needs to be in forter care to give him a break and also us as a fmaily,this is still being decided waiting for a meeting to get funds Also just heard today we have a huge meeting 1st June for high education to decide what will happen with my son,I am so dreading it as i know at some point my son will leave my home,I realy dont know how i am going to cope and have fears about how this will effect him,will he hate me,will he come home how do you cope when your son is taken away My hubby says it is to help him and if we do it now fingers crossed he will turn into a loving child again wished i felt same i feel like i have let him down as a mum [/QUOTE]
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