I know, I know all these years of me saying "you love the kid but hate the behavior" blah blah give me my hypocrite award tomorrow right now I just need to B!#CH! or I will explode!
My youngest has had a horrible time growing up in her sisters shadow, going thru a school district the younger sibling of "crazy Angel" (have heard other students call her) has been really hard on her. Her best friend's mother doesn't allow the girl any contact with our family because of Angel. Unless needs her folks to give her a ride home from somewhere then they are fine with me so they can sit home & drink themselves stupid.
So best friend turned 18yo a couple weeks ago, told her mom was going to a different friends house (lives close enough GPS on phone could match) came over today had lunch, watched a movie. Angel was fine staying in the other room and leaving them alone until the girls phone rang she put a finger over her mouth and said "my mom" all of us didn't say a word except Angel! During the call Angel runs into the room and yells "hi XXXX's mom"
So youngest just got a text "her dad hit her, took her radio and she is grounded for a month; thank her sister"!!! I know she's 18yo but a difficult child that is age equivalent to a 12yo, she has no way to support herself and no where to go if leaves or they throw her out. Told my daughter to text her that I will take her to the runaway shelter if needs me to come get her out of there. There is a great program in our city, school bus can even pick her up there while she works on issues with parents.
I'm so pissed right now want to move Angel to the basement and give this girl her room. I won't we are full up but I feel so responsible for not gagging my little monster or doing something to shut her up! Actually want to throw Angel out on her a**, but legally would have to do eviction process. She has really complicated this girls life and thinks it is funny she caused a problem.
My daughter is an evil little snitch!!! I can't even look at Angel right now, keep thinking "have you lost your F-ing mind?" and "why?" ... Really how or why would someone take pleasure in destroying someones life when they personally have nothing to gain?
Sorry I'm rambling at this point and will probably be trying to delete this tomorrow or not (I want a record of this), thank you for listening I just had to get this out.
Nancy GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
My youngest has had a horrible time growing up in her sisters shadow, going thru a school district the younger sibling of "crazy Angel" (have heard other students call her) has been really hard on her. Her best friend's mother doesn't allow the girl any contact with our family because of Angel. Unless needs her folks to give her a ride home from somewhere then they are fine with me so they can sit home & drink themselves stupid.
So best friend turned 18yo a couple weeks ago, told her mom was going to a different friends house (lives close enough GPS on phone could match) came over today had lunch, watched a movie. Angel was fine staying in the other room and leaving them alone until the girls phone rang she put a finger over her mouth and said "my mom" all of us didn't say a word except Angel! During the call Angel runs into the room and yells "hi XXXX's mom"
So youngest just got a text "her dad hit her, took her radio and she is grounded for a month; thank her sister"!!! I know she's 18yo but a difficult child that is age equivalent to a 12yo, she has no way to support herself and no where to go if leaves or they throw her out. Told my daughter to text her that I will take her to the runaway shelter if needs me to come get her out of there. There is a great program in our city, school bus can even pick her up there while she works on issues with parents.
I'm so pissed right now want to move Angel to the basement and give this girl her room. I won't we are full up but I feel so responsible for not gagging my little monster or doing something to shut her up! Actually want to throw Angel out on her a**, but legally would have to do eviction process. She has really complicated this girls life and thinks it is funny she caused a problem.
My daughter is an evil little snitch!!! I can't even look at Angel right now, keep thinking "have you lost your F-ing mind?" and "why?" ... Really how or why would someone take pleasure in destroying someones life when they personally have nothing to gain?
Sorry I'm rambling at this point and will probably be trying to delete this tomorrow or not (I want a record of this), thank you for listening I just had to get this out.
Nancy GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR