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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 225858" data-attributes="member: 29"><p>Rob also tends to be more attentive if it will benefit him materially. As I mentioned on Nomad's thread, I consider birthdays and Christmas as "truce" time. Even in our darkest days, we gave Rob a gift. Now, it might have been a pair of socks - lol- but it was a gift all the same.</p><p> </p><p>That said, you told her you "forgave the $4000 debt" so, difficult as it is, in my humble opinion you need to let it go. </p><p> </p><p>You mention that she hasn't called since the shower- have you called her? Did you invite her et al to your home for Christmas dinner or whatever your tradition is? I'm just curious. I know that sometimes I don't call Rob because I figure if he really wanted to talk to me he'd call me- but in truth, he's just as busy with his life as I am with mine and he's glad I call when I do (provided it's not too often <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /> )</p><p> </p><p>Anyway, I am rambling. Bottom line is that to me Christmas is truce time and I would get them a small gift.</p><p> </p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 225858, member: 29"] Rob also tends to be more attentive if it will benefit him materially. As I mentioned on Nomad's thread, I consider birthdays and Christmas as "truce" time. Even in our darkest days, we gave Rob a gift. Now, it might have been a pair of socks - lol- but it was a gift all the same. That said, you told her you "forgave the $4000 debt" so, difficult as it is, in my humble opinion you need to let it go. You mention that she hasn't called since the shower- have you called her? Did you invite her et al to your home for Christmas dinner or whatever your tradition is? I'm just curious. I know that sometimes I don't call Rob because I figure if he really wanted to talk to me he'd call me- but in truth, he's just as busy with his life as I am with mine and he's glad I call when I do (provided it's not too often ;) ) Anyway, I am rambling. Bottom line is that to me Christmas is truce time and I would get them a small gift. Suz [/QUOTE]
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