Good morning, First of all, thank you so much for this website. I just found it this morning and wish there had been something like this when my sons were young. Anyway, I am the proud gramma of 4 little girls, 2 in each son's family. They all have their little quirks but one of our little misses is quite a handfull. She has been tentatively diagnosed by the school as ADHD so we are awaiting the results of testing. She is 7 and quite defiant and impulsive. They recently moved into a new home ie new school, new neighbors, etc. Some of her new conduct include walking into the neighbors home, just opened the door and walked into his workshop. The landlord called them about it as he was concerned about her safety obviously. She got off the school bus at the end of the driveway and decided instead of coming into the house, she would walk down the road because the neighbors down the road have a horse and she wanted to see it. She has a terrible temper and will throw toys at her mommie. My daughter in law has to get her up for school 2 hours before it is time to catch the bus because she eats really slowly and has to be coaxed to do so, when she is supposed to be getting ready for school they will find her staring at herself in the mirror instead of getting dressed, combing her hair and all the other things she needs to do to get ready. She fights everything. I have seen several books that might help them but I could sure use some advice as which would be the better one to buy. Because of this lousy economy they can only afford 1 vehicle right now and with my son working nights to make better money, most of the daily stress falls on my daughter in laws shoulders. She is feeling really overwhelmed as he really only sees the kids on the weekend. They also have a 2 year old. Anyway, sorry if this seems overlong. Thank you to all.