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<blockquote data-quote="TeDo" data-source="post: 493099"><p>Sounds like she really inherited the difficult child genes, more from biomom it seems. It could be she takes it out on you because she has some sort of "fantasy" about what it would be like to live with biomom instead of you. She may believe that she wouldn't have to do ANYTHING you make her do if she were with biomom which, from what you've said, could be very true. It could also be that the medications need adjusting or changing. She is going through puberty so body chemistry is different so medication adjustments might need to be made.</p><p></p><p>As for the school stuff, I agree with Exhausted. Call an IEP meeting, after talking to SpEd teacher, and ammend the IEP so the school takes care of the school stuff. That is THEIR job, not yours. As well meaning as you mother in law is, I agree that you might just need to confide in her how you are feeling, depressed, and that it would really help you if SHE would help with the schoolwork since difficult child "has it in for you" anyway. Call it an experiment to see if WHO does it makes a difference. Whatever you have to say to "sell" it to her. If you're honest with her and your relationship is as good as you say it is, she just might chip in and give you a hand.</p><p></p><p>{{{{(((HUGS)))}}}}</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TeDo, post: 493099"] Sounds like she really inherited the difficult child genes, more from biomom it seems. It could be she takes it out on you because she has some sort of "fantasy" about what it would be like to live with biomom instead of you. She may believe that she wouldn't have to do ANYTHING you make her do if she were with biomom which, from what you've said, could be very true. It could also be that the medications need adjusting or changing. She is going through puberty so body chemistry is different so medication adjustments might need to be made. As for the school stuff, I agree with Exhausted. Call an IEP meeting, after talking to SpEd teacher, and ammend the IEP so the school takes care of the school stuff. That is THEIR job, not yours. As well meaning as you mother in law is, I agree that you might just need to confide in her how you are feeling, depressed, and that it would really help you if SHE would help with the schoolwork since difficult child "has it in for you" anyway. Call it an experiment to see if WHO does it makes a difference. Whatever you have to say to "sell" it to her. If you're honest with her and your relationship is as good as you say it is, she just might chip in and give you a hand. {{{{(((HUGS)))}}}} [/QUOTE]
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