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<blockquote data-quote="donna723" data-source="post: 76143" data-attributes="member: 1883"><p>It does sound like you're making progress. How can you be sure that he doesn't have any <em>new</em> accounts that he didn't tell you about - since there has been so many things that he didn't tell you! And it's not just your <em>assets</em> you need to worry about - it's your <em>liabilities</em> too! That's when it can get complicated because the <em>bills</em> have to be divided up too! Could he have borrowed any money that you don't know about, or opened up any new charge accounts or credit cards? </p><p></p><p>Just please don't sign ANYTHING until your lawyer has looked it over first, and even then I would insist on signing it in the lawyers' presence. I still seriously question having one attorney work out the details for the two of you. When they do that, they're basically just filling out the paperwork, going by what you tell them, whether it's fair or not. He's just writing down what he assumes you've agreed to. A shared attorney will not specifically be looking out for YOUR best interests, and personally, I wouldn't trust your soon-to-be ex as far as I could throw him!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="donna723, post: 76143, member: 1883"] It does sound like you're making progress. How can you be sure that he doesn't have any [i]new[/i] accounts that he didn't tell you about - since there has been so many things that he didn't tell you! And it's not just your [i]assets[/i] you need to worry about - it's your [i]liabilities[/i] too! That's when it can get complicated because the [i]bills[/i] have to be divided up too! Could he have borrowed any money that you don't know about, or opened up any new charge accounts or credit cards? Just please don't sign ANYTHING until your lawyer has looked it over first, and even then I would insist on signing it in the lawyers' presence. I still seriously question having one attorney work out the details for the two of you. When they do that, they're basically just filling out the paperwork, going by what you tell them, whether it's fair or not. He's just writing down what he assumes you've agreed to. A shared attorney will not specifically be looking out for YOUR best interests, and personally, I wouldn't trust your soon-to-be ex as far as I could throw him! [/QUOTE]
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