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<blockquote data-quote="svengandhi" data-source="post: 76154" data-attributes="member: 3493"><p>OK - </p><p></p><p>I am really sorry it has come down to this but your WH sounds like he has one hell of a whacked up midlife crisis going on there. Is he abusing any drugs or alcohol or the like? Does he have a brain tumor?</p><p></p><p>I am going to give you some advice and I hope that you follow it. Call all three credit services and put a fraud alert on your name - this will allow you to be notified if anybody tries to obtain credit in your name or do anything to your account. Also, have the credit card companies close out your current accounts and issue you cards with new numbers. Have them mailed to a safe place, not your house. This will prevent him and his ho from using your credit cards.</p><p></p><p>Also, don't be too sure about him not being able to sell the house out from under you. My WH is a real estate attorney but before that he was a mortgage broker. One of the first deals he did wound up in court. He had no idea that the woman with the man who was selling the property was NOT his wife. She knew the answers - wife's date of birth, wife's SSN, etc. and had the wife's driver's license (my state did not have photo licenses back then). He sold the house using his ho as a stand-in for the wife. My WH was not involved in the lawsuit because he had not vetted the papers or anything, but it really puts the fear into you. SO, my suggestion is that you contact your mortgage company and all realtors in town and tell them that your home is NOT on the market and that they should contact you should anyone try to list it or get a mortgage on it (the other deal is they take out a second mortgage or a home equity loan to reduce the value of your half of the house).</p><p></p><p>Open a new account in a different bank - go there, do not do it online and transfer over half of all the money in your joint account. Keep the paperwork at your office and a copy someplace safe. </p><p></p><p>And out this ho wherever you can. At her work, to her family, to anyone who might think less of her if you do. </p><p></p><p>This is war, Karen, and you want to be the winner!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="svengandhi, post: 76154, member: 3493"] OK - I am really sorry it has come down to this but your WH sounds like he has one hell of a whacked up midlife crisis going on there. Is he abusing any drugs or alcohol or the like? Does he have a brain tumor? I am going to give you some advice and I hope that you follow it. Call all three credit services and put a fraud alert on your name - this will allow you to be notified if anybody tries to obtain credit in your name or do anything to your account. Also, have the credit card companies close out your current accounts and issue you cards with new numbers. Have them mailed to a safe place, not your house. This will prevent him and his ho from using your credit cards. Also, don't be too sure about him not being able to sell the house out from under you. My WH is a real estate attorney but before that he was a mortgage broker. One of the first deals he did wound up in court. He had no idea that the woman with the man who was selling the property was NOT his wife. She knew the answers - wife's date of birth, wife's SSN, etc. and had the wife's driver's license (my state did not have photo licenses back then). He sold the house using his ho as a stand-in for the wife. My WH was not involved in the lawsuit because he had not vetted the papers or anything, but it really puts the fear into you. SO, my suggestion is that you contact your mortgage company and all realtors in town and tell them that your home is NOT on the market and that they should contact you should anyone try to list it or get a mortgage on it (the other deal is they take out a second mortgage or a home equity loan to reduce the value of your half of the house). Open a new account in a different bank - go there, do not do it online and transfer over half of all the money in your joint account. Keep the paperwork at your office and a copy someplace safe. And out this ho wherever you can. At her work, to her family, to anyone who might think less of her if you do. This is war, Karen, and you want to be the winner! [/QUOTE]
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