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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 76336" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>It isn't just that he had an affair, Barbara. Several people here have been through that and are still married. It's his overall behavior. Eg, as you pointed out, how he neglected to stand by Karen when she was helping her parents.</p><p>We can only go by what you've told us, Karen, but husband's overall character seems to go beyond this affair, in that he is behaving irresponsibly overall, which I see as a reflection of what he may have been doing for years.</p><p>Correct me if I am wrong, Karen.</p><p>Basically, I don't see husband sitting down and discussing any of this with-you eye-to-eye. I see him running around like a child, putting the blame on you, whining to you instead of saying, "What can I do to help," making up excuses, and generally making things worse. </p><p>If he is having a midlife crisis, then he will surely want to sow his wild oats, try things he's never done b4, buy things he's never had, but he needn't make your life worse while he's doing it. Give him the ph# to a good counselor.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 76336, member: 3419"] It isn't just that he had an affair, Barbara. Several people here have been through that and are still married. It's his overall behavior. Eg, as you pointed out, how he neglected to stand by Karen when she was helping her parents. We can only go by what you've told us, Karen, but husband's overall character seems to go beyond this affair, in that he is behaving irresponsibly overall, which I see as a reflection of what he may have been doing for years. Correct me if I am wrong, Karen. Basically, I don't see husband sitting down and discussing any of this with-you eye-to-eye. I see him running around like a child, putting the blame on you, whining to you instead of saying, "What can I do to help," making up excuses, and generally making things worse. If he is having a midlife crisis, then he will surely want to sow his wild oats, try things he's never done b4, buy things he's never had, but he needn't make your life worse while he's doing it. Give him the ph# to a good counselor. [/QUOTE]
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