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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 220996"><p>Generally I would agree and it is very much up for discussion between husband and I now that difficult child has turned 21.</p><p>The spending money is tiny and it helps to cover things like tampons....one might say necessities.</p><p>She has no luxuries at all. Her apt. is the size of a shoebox and the disability covers the rent.</p><p>However, she does get gifts for birthday and holidays and I suppose she eeks by.</p><p>She has spurts that she applies for jobs and she never is seriously considered.</p><p>It is pathetic...all around.</p><p>I would have more empathy if she were working with SS Disability or willing to go to school.</p><p>Now that she has turned 21, I feel a bigger need to tighten the screws and she is aware that this is likely to happen. She has been warned.</p><p>Not sure exactly what to do, but I agree that we should consider reducing or eliminating the spending money.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 220996"] Generally I would agree and it is very much up for discussion between husband and I now that difficult child has turned 21. The spending money is tiny and it helps to cover things like tampons....one might say necessities. She has no luxuries at all. Her apt. is the size of a shoebox and the disability covers the rent. However, she does get gifts for birthday and holidays and I suppose she eeks by. She has spurts that she applies for jobs and she never is seriously considered. It is pathetic...all around. I would have more empathy if she were working with SS Disability or willing to go to school. Now that she has turned 21, I feel a bigger need to tighten the screws and she is aware that this is likely to happen. She has been warned. Not sure exactly what to do, but I agree that we should consider reducing or eliminating the spending money. [/QUOTE]
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