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<blockquote data-quote="flutterbee" data-source="post: 221201"><p>I'm sorry you're daughter is making poor choices again.</p><p></p><p>She seems to have a very hard time making good choices as to who she lets into her life. While I hate to see anyone go without food, you and husband always bail her out of the situations she creates. I don't mean to be abrasive, but what happens to difficult child when you and husband are no longer able to bail her out of a mess of her own making? </p><p></p><p>It seems to me that at least one of the adults in her apartment should be able to find gainful employment. At least enough to replace the food they are eating. If not, then that person needs to be out. </p><p></p><p>Per her lease, is she even allowed to have someone else staying there? If memory serves, this has been an issue in the past.</p><p></p><p>My feeling is, if difficult child intends to continue to let this man live there then she's going to have to deal with the consequences. You can give her numbers to soup kitchens and food pantries. Instead of giving her an allowance for necessities, I would buy them as long as that man is living there. Who knows if the money is going to buy his alcohol.</p><p></p><p>Just my two cents.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterbee, post: 221201"] I'm sorry you're daughter is making poor choices again. She seems to have a very hard time making good choices as to who she lets into her life. While I hate to see anyone go without food, you and husband always bail her out of the situations she creates. I don't mean to be abrasive, but what happens to difficult child when you and husband are no longer able to bail her out of a mess of her own making? It seems to me that at least one of the adults in her apartment should be able to find gainful employment. At least enough to replace the food they are eating. If not, then that person needs to be out. Per her lease, is she even allowed to have someone else staying there? If memory serves, this has been an issue in the past. My feeling is, if difficult child intends to continue to let this man live there then she's going to have to deal with the consequences. You can give her numbers to soup kitchens and food pantries. Instead of giving her an allowance for necessities, I would buy them as long as that man is living there. Who knows if the money is going to buy his alcohol. Just my two cents. [/QUOTE]
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