Our school is such a joke. We spent over 3 hours in another IEP meeting and the entire last hour was them threatening me. I was so livid. We suspended the IEP meeting and will reconvene in January. At that time if I haven't "changed my mind", they will declare a unilateral IEP and I will need to file for due process and a stay put order. While I think the Due Process steps will take until the end of the school year and I do hope to win (cause I am right!!) our State is infamous for schools always winning at Due Process. I have no idea what I am going to do for her for 8th grade if I lose -- their offered placement is completely unacceptable.