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<blockquote data-quote="2much2recover" data-source="post: 635262" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>Your story has alarm bells ringing all over it - lying, stealing (companies) manipulation and control. Now you say she is in a degrading relationship. These are things I learned about my own daughter while reading about Sociopaths. Another bell ringer: a sociopath will place themselves in degrading relationships that they are quite aware are totally against the family morals and values. It is the big "SCREW YOU" Instead of worrying about what is going on in her relationship, while she is busy - educate yourself to the possibilities of what you may be dealing with and make a life plan for the rest of your family - to return it to it's true core values. Finding out WHAT your child's (maybe) diagnosis is (or what it seems like without a professional diagnosis) will help you to deal with her in a much more protected way. It CAN stop the fighting if you can accept that your child is ill (or has a personality disorder) and you begin to set up boundaries with her. Perhaps you could try walking away when she is verbally abusive to you - me, my difficult child would call me up and scream obscenities at me so I just got to where when she called and did that I would just hang up the phone. When you are dealing with someone who is disordered YOU for YOU have to learn to walk away. Whether you have a relationship with her or not, who is wrong, who is right doesn't matter - you need to understand the WHAT that you are dealing with so you know the how's and whats of how YOU want to respond. Sociopaths are excellent at GAS-LIGHTING us. I can empathize with how you feel about the boyfriend - my daughter, demanded that I accept some creepo that she wanted to marry and I just said - nope, ain't gonna happen - next thing you know, after she had foot surgery he tried to throw her in her wheelchair into the pool. I didn't even go over there - not my circus - not my monkeys.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2much2recover, post: 635262, member: 18366"] Your story has alarm bells ringing all over it - lying, stealing (companies) manipulation and control. Now you say she is in a degrading relationship. These are things I learned about my own daughter while reading about Sociopaths. Another bell ringer: a sociopath will place themselves in degrading relationships that they are quite aware are totally against the family morals and values. It is the big "SCREW YOU" Instead of worrying about what is going on in her relationship, while she is busy - educate yourself to the possibilities of what you may be dealing with and make a life plan for the rest of your family - to return it to it's true core values. Finding out WHAT your child's (maybe) diagnosis is (or what it seems like without a professional diagnosis) will help you to deal with her in a much more protected way. It CAN stop the fighting if you can accept that your child is ill (or has a personality disorder) and you begin to set up boundaries with her. Perhaps you could try walking away when she is verbally abusive to you - me, my difficult child would call me up and scream obscenities at me so I just got to where when she called and did that I would just hang up the phone. When you are dealing with someone who is disordered YOU for YOU have to learn to walk away. Whether you have a relationship with her or not, who is wrong, who is right doesn't matter - you need to understand the WHAT that you are dealing with so you know the how's and whats of how YOU want to respond. Sociopaths are excellent at GAS-LIGHTING us. I can empathize with how you feel about the boyfriend - my daughter, demanded that I accept some creepo that she wanted to marry and I just said - nope, ain't gonna happen - next thing you know, after she had foot surgery he tried to throw her in her wheelchair into the pool. I didn't even go over there - not my circus - not my monkeys. [/QUOTE]
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