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We Didn't React The Way She Thought We Would
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 437959" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I spoke to her briefly about the negative messages. I did sort of see a light bulb go off. She was super upset with herself because she just has never done things liek that or wanted to. THinking about the effect of husband doubting everything she said, and each time he couldn't find something immediately looking at her with blame all over his face, and all his comments about how before he never dropped the debit card and it is only that one that ever falls out, etc.... she was able to see how the idea of just taking some money using the card could occur and seem like something she might as well do. </p><p></p><p>Knowing WHY she did it was very reassuring to her. She was thinking she was turning into a horrible person for even thinking of doing what she did. It also gives her some ways to not get into that situation again. When she hears those negative messages she is going to challenge them more as they are happening rather than let the messages just keep happening.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 437959, member: 1233"] I spoke to her briefly about the negative messages. I did sort of see a light bulb go off. She was super upset with herself because she just has never done things liek that or wanted to. THinking about the effect of husband doubting everything she said, and each time he couldn't find something immediately looking at her with blame all over his face, and all his comments about how before he never dropped the debit card and it is only that one that ever falls out, etc.... she was able to see how the idea of just taking some money using the card could occur and seem like something she might as well do. Knowing WHY she did it was very reassuring to her. She was thinking she was turning into a horrible person for even thinking of doing what she did. It also gives her some ways to not get into that situation again. When she hears those negative messages she is going to challenge them more as they are happening rather than let the messages just keep happening. [/QUOTE]
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