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<blockquote data-quote="Charmedpea" data-source="post: 171462" data-attributes="member: 5404"><p>Gezzz I was having with drawls no internet for a week. yuck.. </p><p> </p><p>Well hubby got to keep his job. they are going to work with him, and they said they are slow this time of year anyway. I back to work full-time, and I'm whooped, I havent pulled those hours in a while. At one point yesturday I just stood their and was talking to my legs and feet. letting them know only a couple of more hours and you can start moving at anytime. </p><p> </p><p>difficult child is done with the PHP. They said she is the strongest ODD they have seen in a long time. Lucky me.. They increased the concerta and now they are going to change it. Because she would do great during the day and towards the evening the ADHD would rear its ugly head and make the ODD worse. The dr. looked at me and said oh it wears off in the evening.. Well that would of been great if you told me that. So until they change medications to one that works 24hours, we started giving it to her later in the morning instead of first thing. Delayed it about 3 hours. She is pretty good in the morning, and since we started doing that she has been really good. </p><p> </p><p>She did ask when is dad going to start being home.. hehe, I said oh tuesday her first day out of php. she thought I was kidding and then asked a couple of days later, why is dad home. We told her that work is slow right now so he wont be working as much. She asked us at different times to see if our story was the same. </p><p> </p><p>She still has a problem of getting home on time. And we did call the cops on her sunday night. She wouldnt get in the car and said she wont come home, and when I wanted to meet one of her friends that was going to bring her home she wouldnt let me. so as I was walking she would stand in front of me and grabbed my arm this went on for a few mins. Then she backed off. Well I found out later the only reason she backed off was because hubby was in the car behind me and he open the car door to get out. i didnt see that. But that is the only reason she backed off, husband said he thought she was going to hit me. </p><p> </p><p>she off course got mouthy once we got home husband wanted to knock her teeth in and I wanted to strangle her. But we both just Kept our quiet tone of voice and told her when she is ready to have a conversation with us in a normal tone let us know. then we went outside on the porch. </p><p> </p><p>It is so hard not to get into an argument with her. I know I wont win. She will not hear me when she is in the explosive mode, so we have learned to back off. Not push her buttons and wait till she is calm again. </p><p> </p><p>It has been 4 days since we changed the time of giving her the medications. and it has been quiet here. She has been that lovable girl all week. I dont want to ginks my self but I have to take what I can when I can. </p><p> </p><p>charmed</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Charmedpea, post: 171462, member: 5404"] Gezzz I was having with drawls no internet for a week. yuck.. Well hubby got to keep his job. they are going to work with him, and they said they are slow this time of year anyway. I back to work full-time, and I'm whooped, I havent pulled those hours in a while. At one point yesturday I just stood their and was talking to my legs and feet. letting them know only a couple of more hours and you can start moving at anytime. difficult child is done with the PHP. They said she is the strongest ODD they have seen in a long time. Lucky me.. They increased the concerta and now they are going to change it. Because she would do great during the day and towards the evening the ADHD would rear its ugly head and make the ODD worse. The dr. looked at me and said oh it wears off in the evening.. Well that would of been great if you told me that. So until they change medications to one that works 24hours, we started giving it to her later in the morning instead of first thing. Delayed it about 3 hours. She is pretty good in the morning, and since we started doing that she has been really good. She did ask when is dad going to start being home.. hehe, I said oh tuesday her first day out of php. she thought I was kidding and then asked a couple of days later, why is dad home. We told her that work is slow right now so he wont be working as much. She asked us at different times to see if our story was the same. She still has a problem of getting home on time. And we did call the cops on her sunday night. She wouldnt get in the car and said she wont come home, and when I wanted to meet one of her friends that was going to bring her home she wouldnt let me. so as I was walking she would stand in front of me and grabbed my arm this went on for a few mins. Then she backed off. Well I found out later the only reason she backed off was because hubby was in the car behind me and he open the car door to get out. i didnt see that. But that is the only reason she backed off, husband said he thought she was going to hit me. she off course got mouthy once we got home husband wanted to knock her teeth in and I wanted to strangle her. But we both just Kept our quiet tone of voice and told her when she is ready to have a conversation with us in a normal tone let us know. then we went outside on the porch. It is so hard not to get into an argument with her. I know I wont win. She will not hear me when she is in the explosive mode, so we have learned to back off. Not push her buttons and wait till she is calm again. It has been 4 days since we changed the time of giving her the medications. and it has been quiet here. She has been that lovable girl all week. I dont want to ginks my self but I have to take what I can when I can. charmed [/QUOTE]
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