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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 638032" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>LOL - How did have enough time this morning to get on-line?</p><p> </p><p>My wonderful husband, Jabberwockey, <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> is right - we can't live that way. I wish I could think of an alternative. The thought of "months" hurts. Big time. It will be winter soon. It will be Thanksgiving and Christmas soon. I thought last Christmas would be the worse I'd ever have - when our son told me as late as 10:00 Christmas eve that there would be a surprise under the tree for us. It was apparently AIR - because he did zero for Christmas. But this one will likely be worse. </p><p> </p><p>I remember someone here letting their child come home, but not giving them a key. In other words, they were only allowed in the house when the parents were. That's a thought. We really haven't even discussed it and I hope we don't have to make a decision for a while. I think it was important that it was <em>ME</em> that told him to pack and leave. It was Dad who told him we still loved him. I've always been the softy. It needed to come from me. </p><p> </p><p>Told Jabber I laid awake last night til way after midnight, thinking of stripping son's room and redecorating. It literally looks like it did when he was 7 (if you ignore the metal band poster on the wall) and I've wanted to redo it since he was about 13. He would never let me. He didn't see the point of getting rid of the spaceman wallpaper border. Well the point has become, <em>it's not his room anymore</em>!</p><p> </p><p><em>If</em> he comes back, I don't want him to be too comfortable.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 638032, member: 17309"] LOL - How did have enough time this morning to get on-line? My wonderful husband, Jabberwockey, :) is right - we can't live that way. I wish I could think of an alternative. The thought of "months" hurts. Big time. It will be winter soon. It will be Thanksgiving and Christmas soon. I thought last Christmas would be the worse I'd ever have - when our son told me as late as 10:00 Christmas eve that there would be a surprise under the tree for us. It was apparently AIR - because he did zero for Christmas. But this one will likely be worse. I remember someone here letting their child come home, but not giving them a key. In other words, they were only allowed in the house when the parents were. That's a thought. We really haven't even discussed it and I hope we don't have to make a decision for a while. I think it was important that it was [I]ME[/I] that told him to pack and leave. It was Dad who told him we still loved him. I've always been the softy. It needed to come from me. Told Jabber I laid awake last night til way after midnight, thinking of stripping son's room and redecorating. It literally looks like it did when he was 7 (if you ignore the metal band poster on the wall) and I've wanted to redo it since he was about 13. He would never let me. He didn't see the point of getting rid of the spaceman wallpaper border. Well the point has become, [I]it's not his room anymore[/I]! [I]If[/I] he comes back, I don't want him to be too comfortable. [/QUOTE]
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