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<blockquote data-quote="dstc_99" data-source="post: 638124" data-attributes="member: 15473"><p>It will take some time to come down off that ledge. I don't know how to explain it but it felt to me like my insides were being torn apart and I wouldn't survive. I did but it took time to get that pain out of my chest.</p><p> </p><p>As for him coming and going to get stuff I would be tempted to pack his items up room by room and then put that in the garage. If he wan'Tourette's Syndrome something then he takes the box for the room. I did this with difficult child and it was a huge shock to her. At the time she felt it meant I hated her but now she knows that I follow through. She told me she was coming to get her stuff. I told her it would be ready. It was ready. She filled her car to the brim and took it. Granted she had a place to live. Since he doesn't I might be tempted to store it in the garage until he finds somewhere more permanent but I would give him a time limit of some sort for that too.</p><p> </p><p>One other thing. I think I would make it clear when and where the pick ups would be. No waiting around all day on edge because you don't know when he will drop by. No dreading having to go ahead and leave and then deal with him angry because you didn't wait. Just say I can do it from 2-4 on Monday in the garage and let him know that he can work out the transportation or just do without.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dstc_99, post: 638124, member: 15473"] It will take some time to come down off that ledge. I don't know how to explain it but it felt to me like my insides were being torn apart and I wouldn't survive. I did but it took time to get that pain out of my chest. As for him coming and going to get stuff I would be tempted to pack his items up room by room and then put that in the garage. If he wan'Tourette's Syndrome something then he takes the box for the room. I did this with difficult child and it was a huge shock to her. At the time she felt it meant I hated her but now she knows that I follow through. She told me she was coming to get her stuff. I told her it would be ready. It was ready. She filled her car to the brim and took it. Granted she had a place to live. Since he doesn't I might be tempted to store it in the garage until he finds somewhere more permanent but I would give him a time limit of some sort for that too. One other thing. I think I would make it clear when and where the pick ups would be. No waiting around all day on edge because you don't know when he will drop by. No dreading having to go ahead and leave and then deal with him angry because you didn't wait. Just say I can do it from 2-4 on Monday in the garage and let him know that he can work out the transportation or just do without. [/QUOTE]
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