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<blockquote data-quote="bran155" data-source="post: 223135"><p>I can't say this enough : YOU GUYS ARE SO GREAT!!! You all give me strength, really and truly you do!!! Thank you so much for that.</p><p></p><p>Its' weird, it's as though someone came in during the night and snatched the obsession right out of me. Within the last few days I am feeling so much better. I am not freaking out like I used to. The anxiety is tamer, the worry is less, the pieces of my heart are slowly finding their place again. I can't say that this freedom will last forever because I am sure there will come a day when I fall apart again. I am thinking it will be when she is caught and in jail. And even if I begin to fall apart again, I will never let her know it. I will be strong enough to let her suffer her own consequences for a while. When she goes back to jail I am not going to have any communication with her for at least a month. Not so much because she punched me in the face, but more so for the mere fact that she has not even called me to tell me she is okay. Such a lack of common courtesy. She knows how worried I get, all she has to do is call and simply say she is alive and hang up. But I get nothing. There is no doubt in my mind that when she is caught she WILL absolutely call me then. She will be very surprised when I speak calmly to her and am in control of my emotions. I think she will be taken back a bit by my indifference. She is used to me being a total mess and so consumed with her drama. Maybe then she will see that life no longer revolves around her. I have a feeling that she will have the nerve to show up here on Christmas to get her presents!!! She is just that selfish. She won't get them, but she will try!!! We are not going to give her any of her gifts until she comes out of jail. And at that, she will only get them if she deserves them. </p><p></p><p>I hope she gets caught before she ends up with more charges!!! But, hey even if she ends up in more trouble it will only be because of choices she makes. In fact, I got a letter the other day from the court, if she does not turn herself in within 30 days of the date of that letter the court is going to add Bail Jumping Charges to her case. More trouble!!! She is not thinking about the future she is only thinking about instant gratification. I guess that is par for the course - hu?</p><p></p><p>Thank you once again my friends. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bran155, post: 223135"] I can't say this enough : YOU GUYS ARE SO GREAT!!! You all give me strength, really and truly you do!!! Thank you so much for that. Its' weird, it's as though someone came in during the night and snatched the obsession right out of me. Within the last few days I am feeling so much better. I am not freaking out like I used to. The anxiety is tamer, the worry is less, the pieces of my heart are slowly finding their place again. I can't say that this freedom will last forever because I am sure there will come a day when I fall apart again. I am thinking it will be when she is caught and in jail. And even if I begin to fall apart again, I will never let her know it. I will be strong enough to let her suffer her own consequences for a while. When she goes back to jail I am not going to have any communication with her for at least a month. Not so much because she punched me in the face, but more so for the mere fact that she has not even called me to tell me she is okay. Such a lack of common courtesy. She knows how worried I get, all she has to do is call and simply say she is alive and hang up. But I get nothing. There is no doubt in my mind that when she is caught she WILL absolutely call me then. She will be very surprised when I speak calmly to her and am in control of my emotions. I think she will be taken back a bit by my indifference. She is used to me being a total mess and so consumed with her drama. Maybe then she will see that life no longer revolves around her. I have a feeling that she will have the nerve to show up here on Christmas to get her presents!!! She is just that selfish. She won't get them, but she will try!!! We are not going to give her any of her gifts until she comes out of jail. And at that, she will only get them if she deserves them. I hope she gets caught before she ends up with more charges!!! But, hey even if she ends up in more trouble it will only be because of choices she makes. In fact, I got a letter the other day from the court, if she does not turn herself in within 30 days of the date of that letter the court is going to add Bail Jumping Charges to her case. More trouble!!! She is not thinking about the future she is only thinking about instant gratification. I guess that is par for the course - hu? Thank you once again my friends. :) [/QUOTE]
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