hi everyone....... so my daughter joined us for easter. i won't lie there were a few very hairy moments. than i stated simply if you abuse me in anyway today i will put you in my truck drive you back to town and drop you off in town. she doesnt' want us to know where she lives....... she than straightened up, apologized etc. long story short it went well. it was odd at end of day we returned to the house her friend picked her up and she left. upsetting thing is we arent' sure if she'll graduate yet or not. she's failing almost all her classes right now. she was emailing me last night about it and i was supportive yet not controlling. trying to implement the let go thing. we'll c it's def getting a little easier.