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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 698150" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Tell him to leave. him he needs to leave or you will MAkE him leave, legally if you must. Explain itis not good for a man his age to live with mo Then stand firm and dont waver.</p><p></p><p>Check tenant laws in your state, but once they are adhered to you can make him leave. He is way too old to be in your home, not contributing, snd you are not helping him or being good to yourself either. This living arrangement helps neither of you.</p><p></p><p>To give him options, find the shelters and food banks in the area so that he has options. Write them done for him If he is able bodied, include places that help find jobs. if he is disabled, write down the number and address of social services to ask how he could be evaluated for Disability. There are comminity services that can and will try to help him, but he has to comply by asking for help and doing what they say.</p><p></p><p>if he wont comply, it is on his shoulders. Then he wont get hrlp, but he can.</p><p></p><p>I wish you peace and luck. it is never easy to let them write their own stories, especially if they have messed up but by thirty, they need to learn. We cant live forever and slso our lives matter as much as theirs does. We deserve laughter, love, joy and freedom from others oroblems, even our grown kids. Many ADD adultsthrive. My autistic son works and lives in his own apartment. He is amazing and has surpassed all expectations of him. It was his idea to move out andhe isdoing well. He is twenty three, two days ago...lol. He pays his own bills.</p><p></p><p>if you still pay for anything of your sons, I would stop. He needs motivation to do it himself.</p><p></p><p>Hugs for your hurting heart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 698150, member: 1550"] Tell him to leave. him he needs to leave or you will MAkE him leave, legally if you must. Explain itis not good for a man his age to live with mo Then stand firm and dont waver. Check tenant laws in your state, but once they are adhered to you can make him leave. He is way too old to be in your home, not contributing, snd you are not helping him or being good to yourself either. This living arrangement helps neither of you. To give him options, find the shelters and food banks in the area so that he has options. Write them done for him If he is able bodied, include places that help find jobs. if he is disabled, write down the number and address of social services to ask how he could be evaluated for Disability. There are comminity services that can and will try to help him, but he has to comply by asking for help and doing what they say. if he wont comply, it is on his shoulders. Then he wont get hrlp, but he can. I wish you peace and luck. it is never easy to let them write their own stories, especially if they have messed up but by thirty, they need to learn. We cant live forever and slso our lives matter as much as theirs does. We deserve laughter, love, joy and freedom from others oroblems, even our grown kids. Many ADD adultsthrive. My autistic son works and lives in his own apartment. He is amazing and has surpassed all expectations of him. It was his idea to move out andhe isdoing well. He is twenty three, two days ago...lol. He pays his own bills. if you still pay for anything of your sons, I would stop. He needs motivation to do it himself. Hugs for your hurting heart. [/QUOTE]
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