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Wee has a ballgame tonight...praying daddy of the year doesn't show.
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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 443499" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>Yup, Susie, I have explained that DEX doesn't know him and has always been welcome to be around Wee but has chosen not to, and, just like anyone else who might want to take him to spend time, I can't just let him go with anyone for his own safety. When daddy Disney decides to come around on a regular basis and put in the time and effort to show up consistently and learn to know Wee, then maybe it would be ok; but not until then. </p><p>We've also been adamant that she and her family are not related to him at all. But he's 9 going on 7 in some respects and all he's ever heard and seen from DEX and whackjob is the Disneyland facade. </p><p>I talked to exMIL last night and she says whackjob does it on purpose to put me in the position of being the bad guy. </p><p>I have not addressed whackjob myself at any point, and although I may end up doing so, I doubt it will do any good. I have never met someone so adept at manufacturing their own reality on a daily basis. She hounded poor difficult child 1's wife relentlessly about going to Cali to see 'their grandbaby' when both difficult child 1 and his wife said they were not welcome there. They spoke it, they wrote it, they emailed it, heck they even put it on Facebook, and it has only ever bought them brief periods of peace from her. Sometimes no more than a day before she starts hounding them about their 'rights' to her grandchild. </p><p>ExMIL uses the back support to shut her up now. Seems to be the only thing she's found that will make her back off. She doesn't like to 'use' it like that, but this woman is obviously a difficult child and DOES.NOT.GET.IT and will just hound and hound and hound... </p><p>Dex will be 43 this year. Whackjob is close to the same age. Dex currently has 2 'girls on the side', which has been his MO for years, according to exMIL, and whackjob knows it. When she catches dex with one of them, or gets the cell phone bill each month and goes thru his calls, she's like clockwork on exMIL's porchstep, whining to her about it. ExMIL said she finally lost it with her and yelled 'what do you want me to do about it?' and it shut her up for a whopping sum of a day. They are 40+ year old adults...what is his mother going to do about it? In fact, after dex's second girlfriend after our divorce called me up to ask questions about his 'stories' when she started to realize things didn't add up, exMIL has started telling his girlfriend's straightup what his history is. If they so much as suggest they arent sure about something in her company, she opens the door for 'the talk'. Whackjob got 'the talk', too. </p><p>She drives me nutty, and I doubt a rule out would do any good. She wouldn't abide by it, and law enforcement doesn't exactly take them to be hideous crimes that need backing. At least not around here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 443499, member: 1848"] Yup, Susie, I have explained that DEX doesn't know him and has always been welcome to be around Wee but has chosen not to, and, just like anyone else who might want to take him to spend time, I can't just let him go with anyone for his own safety. When daddy Disney decides to come around on a regular basis and put in the time and effort to show up consistently and learn to know Wee, then maybe it would be ok; but not until then. We've also been adamant that she and her family are not related to him at all. But he's 9 going on 7 in some respects and all he's ever heard and seen from DEX and whackjob is the Disneyland facade. I talked to exMIL last night and she says whackjob does it on purpose to put me in the position of being the bad guy. I have not addressed whackjob myself at any point, and although I may end up doing so, I doubt it will do any good. I have never met someone so adept at manufacturing their own reality on a daily basis. She hounded poor difficult child 1's wife relentlessly about going to Cali to see 'their grandbaby' when both difficult child 1 and his wife said they were not welcome there. They spoke it, they wrote it, they emailed it, heck they even put it on Facebook, and it has only ever bought them brief periods of peace from her. Sometimes no more than a day before she starts hounding them about their 'rights' to her grandchild. ExMIL uses the back support to shut her up now. Seems to be the only thing she's found that will make her back off. She doesn't like to 'use' it like that, but this woman is obviously a difficult child and DOES.NOT.GET.IT and will just hound and hound and hound... Dex will be 43 this year. Whackjob is close to the same age. Dex currently has 2 'girls on the side', which has been his MO for years, according to exMIL, and whackjob knows it. When she catches dex with one of them, or gets the cell phone bill each month and goes thru his calls, she's like clockwork on exMIL's porchstep, whining to her about it. ExMIL said she finally lost it with her and yelled 'what do you want me to do about it?' and it shut her up for a whopping sum of a day. They are 40+ year old adults...what is his mother going to do about it? In fact, after dex's second girlfriend after our divorce called me up to ask questions about his 'stories' when she started to realize things didn't add up, exMIL has started telling his girlfriend's straightup what his history is. If they so much as suggest they arent sure about something in her company, she opens the door for 'the talk'. Whackjob got 'the talk', too. She drives me nutty, and I doubt a rule out would do any good. She wouldn't abide by it, and law enforcement doesn't exactly take them to be hideous crimes that need backing. At least not around here. [/QUOTE]
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