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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 631103" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>Sven...five weddings! OMG! I like your preliminary plans!</p><p></p><p>Tomorrow is Friday, no lunch invitation. I'm going out of town Monday.</p><p><img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> we are talking a little, but neither has mentioned the wedding debacle.</p><p></p><p>husband is saying that maybe I shouldn't say anything because what I'm particularly upset about is that after calling us repeatedly for decades "just like family," she still didn't invite us after getting the extra table. He thinks that she accidentally told me about the extra table because she is accustomed to freely telling me what's on her mind and when she started to let lose, she just opened up about everything, not realizing that this detail would be over the top. As I said before, it didn't feel good not being invited, but when she told me about the last minute extra table and we still weren't being invited, I was hurt. So...as husband has calmed down a little, he says that maybe I shouldn't call it to her attention that she over shared out of habit...since we are just like family or ? I did wish to say that I'm hurt, but accept the situation, because it don't wish to be a wimp about it. You teach people how to treat you. BUT, I want to stick to how I feel, not bring up anything I think she may or may not have done wrong. I'm very sad, disappointed and confused.</p><p>So...we are speaking now, not mentioning the wedding and it's all superficial. Sigh. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 631103, member: 4152"] Sven...five weddings! OMG! I like your preliminary plans! Tomorrow is Friday, no lunch invitation. I'm going out of town Monday. :( we are talking a little, but neither has mentioned the wedding debacle. husband is saying that maybe I shouldn't say anything because what I'm particularly upset about is that after calling us repeatedly for decades "just like family," she still didn't invite us after getting the extra table. He thinks that she accidentally told me about the extra table because she is accustomed to freely telling me what's on her mind and when she started to let lose, she just opened up about everything, not realizing that this detail would be over the top. As I said before, it didn't feel good not being invited, but when she told me about the last minute extra table and we still weren't being invited, I was hurt. So...as husband has calmed down a little, he says that maybe I shouldn't call it to her attention that she over shared out of habit...since we are just like family or ? I did wish to say that I'm hurt, but accept the situation, because it don't wish to be a wimp about it. You teach people how to treat you. BUT, I want to stick to how I feel, not bring up anything I think she may or may not have done wrong. I'm very sad, disappointed and confused. So...we are speaking now, not mentioning the wedding and it's all superficial. Sigh. :( [/QUOTE]
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