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<blockquote data-quote="jessiern" data-source="post: 497072" data-attributes="member: 13530"><p>Thank you all so much for the advice. Things have been good the last couple of days at school. My son is always with a behavior problem. My husband tries to help as much as he can. He is a wonderful positive role model for him but he gets frustrated too. At this point I am so frustrated I can only take one day at a time. The judge let my ex have him for a whole week at Christmas so we have been trying to get him back in his routine. I just can't seem to get it through to a judge that routine and schedule is so important to my son and this family. His dad could care less. He has been diagnosed with depression and bi polar but has ignored it for 40 years and would only take medications. when I made him in our marriage. So he fights me every step of the way with my sons treatment. My son is seeing a psychiatric. doctor. once every two months and the counselour weekely. She has always been real low dose and cautious with his medications. If she does not do anything different and even drastic on the 18th I am changind doctors. It has been three yrs. and I need results! I have taking him to his pediatrician and he did a KUB of stomach. He says it is a mental/emotional problem not physical with the bowel movements in his pants. The school has not been that great working with me except for 2 wonderful teachers he has had. We were lucky we got the same kindergarten teacher for second grade. I feel guilty for her she is so good to my son but I know he is a problem in her class. I have taken a job working on the weekends Friday through Monday morning (did I say I am a Hospice RN?) so I hope that being home with him through the week will help. On the other hand being at home with him and my drama all week and then working all weekend worries me that it will be worse. I don't know this weekend it starts so we will see how it goes. I feel like such a terrible mom cause I am wearing so thin with my son these days. Some days he is so out of control over the little things that I am affraid he will end up i some facility if I can't turn things around. I am so hurt that his dad gave him this mess and he is able to go on with his new life and live his single party time life without being bothered with this on a daily basis! But I know I made this path for myself. I really need to get a better relationship with my sweet boy. He was such a difficult toddler. I remember in 2007 I had left his abusive dad for 14 months before he talked me into more counsleing and yet another try. My son was just into everything. He ran across the couch, hit my glass of soda and dropped it all over my laptop computer! I just cried for days. He would not let up. His dad was coming to get him whenever and I could not take another minute. I felt like I hated my son at that moment. I called his dad and said you have to come and get him! I cant take it right now! I was really affraid I might hurt him if I spanked him one more time! The guilt I carry because I brought this child into this crazy world will never leave me. It goes with me everyday. My future is uncertain. I do thank god so much for all of my blessings. I know that he is with me even when I think I am alone. I will not stop fighting for my baby boy until there is no more to give. I appreciate everyone. It is so nice to talk out loud to people going through the same thing. Have a great night.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jessiern, post: 497072, member: 13530"] Thank you all so much for the advice. Things have been good the last couple of days at school. My son is always with a behavior problem. My husband tries to help as much as he can. He is a wonderful positive role model for him but he gets frustrated too. At this point I am so frustrated I can only take one day at a time. The judge let my ex have him for a whole week at Christmas so we have been trying to get him back in his routine. I just can't seem to get it through to a judge that routine and schedule is so important to my son and this family. His dad could care less. He has been diagnosed with depression and bi polar but has ignored it for 40 years and would only take medications. when I made him in our marriage. So he fights me every step of the way with my sons treatment. My son is seeing a psychiatric. doctor. once every two months and the counselour weekely. She has always been real low dose and cautious with his medications. If she does not do anything different and even drastic on the 18th I am changind doctors. It has been three yrs. and I need results! I have taking him to his pediatrician and he did a KUB of stomach. He says it is a mental/emotional problem not physical with the bowel movements in his pants. The school has not been that great working with me except for 2 wonderful teachers he has had. We were lucky we got the same kindergarten teacher for second grade. I feel guilty for her she is so good to my son but I know he is a problem in her class. I have taken a job working on the weekends Friday through Monday morning (did I say I am a Hospice RN?) so I hope that being home with him through the week will help. On the other hand being at home with him and my drama all week and then working all weekend worries me that it will be worse. I don't know this weekend it starts so we will see how it goes. I feel like such a terrible mom cause I am wearing so thin with my son these days. Some days he is so out of control over the little things that I am affraid he will end up i some facility if I can't turn things around. I am so hurt that his dad gave him this mess and he is able to go on with his new life and live his single party time life without being bothered with this on a daily basis! But I know I made this path for myself. I really need to get a better relationship with my sweet boy. He was such a difficult toddler. I remember in 2007 I had left his abusive dad for 14 months before he talked me into more counsleing and yet another try. My son was just into everything. He ran across the couch, hit my glass of soda and dropped it all over my laptop computer! I just cried for days. He would not let up. His dad was coming to get him whenever and I could not take another minute. I felt like I hated my son at that moment. I called his dad and said you have to come and get him! I cant take it right now! I was really affraid I might hurt him if I spanked him one more time! The guilt I carry because I brought this child into this crazy world will never leave me. It goes with me everyday. My future is uncertain. I do thank god so much for all of my blessings. I know that he is with me even when I think I am alone. I will not stop fighting for my baby boy until there is no more to give. I appreciate everyone. It is so nice to talk out loud to people going through the same thing. Have a great night. [/QUOTE]
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