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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 506961" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>There are still toomany things not adding up. The PO said difficult child was being ordered to this detention reentry now because the central office reviewed the case and decided that since difficult child had 2 charges while at the Department of Juvenile Justice facility, he needed additional "services" before being transitioned home. difficult child would have to wait until they had an opening at the detention center, he didn't know how long it would be, and he didn't know how long difficult child would be at the detention center once there.</p><p></p><p>Central office wouldn't even talk about it and just said to discuss it with PO.</p><p></p><p>The person who called about difficult child getting hit last night said they'd just heard word yesterday that difficult child would be leaving to go to detention and I said yeah but we don't know how long he'll have to wait to go or how long he'll be there. She said it wouldn't be very long. I told her what PO said about having to wait and being at dettenntion some indefinite period of time. She said that isn't what she's hearing.</p><p></p><p>1) PO made it sound like difficult child had to go to detention reentry as an additional "service" due to previous misconduct in Department of Juvenile Justice. That would be using reentry detention as a punishment when it's supposed to be a reward- a step down. And again, it's not supposesd to add to his time. And the detentioon reentry is supposed to be 30 days long so why didn't he say about 30 days?</p><p></p><p>2) After talking to this lady last night then sleeping on it, it sounds like PO is lying to me or at least not being forthcoming about how long difficult child will be anywhere. They might not always tell a parent eexactly when a kid is getting transferred but they do give a fairly accurate range- such as 1 to 3 days or 2 weeks or whatever. I wonder though if the central office sent something to the Department of Juvenile Justice facility, too, and that's why this lady said what she heard isn't what I'm saying PO told me. Or is it that they heard one thing from PO and PO told me something different?</p><p></p><p>I really wouldn't even mind about the detention reentry if we did know how long difficult child would really be there and it was not to exceed 60 days and was really going to be used for reunification. But I wouldn't trust this PO as far as I could throw him. He might try now to get GH ordered for after the detention time. Or he coulld wait until the day before difficult child is to be released from detention and set that date back.</p><p></p><p>I'm going to try to call difficult child's counselor or the super at the facility. PO is just playing too many games. It could be that central office is only using the detention center as a very short term transitional place but PO is making it sound like it's indefinite just to instigate me. I don't know- something just isn't adding up. And why haven't I rec'd the written response central office said they were preparing to send to me so I hear it/see it from them? Who's verifying PO is tellling the truth?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 506961, member: 3699"] There are still toomany things not adding up. The PO said difficult child was being ordered to this detention reentry now because the central office reviewed the case and decided that since difficult child had 2 charges while at the Department of Juvenile Justice facility, he needed additional "services" before being transitioned home. difficult child would have to wait until they had an opening at the detention center, he didn't know how long it would be, and he didn't know how long difficult child would be at the detention center once there. Central office wouldn't even talk about it and just said to discuss it with PO. The person who called about difficult child getting hit last night said they'd just heard word yesterday that difficult child would be leaving to go to detention and I said yeah but we don't know how long he'll have to wait to go or how long he'll be there. She said it wouldn't be very long. I told her what PO said about having to wait and being at dettenntion some indefinite period of time. She said that isn't what she's hearing. 1) PO made it sound like difficult child had to go to detention reentry as an additional "service" due to previous misconduct in Department of Juvenile Justice. That would be using reentry detention as a punishment when it's supposed to be a reward- a step down. And again, it's not supposesd to add to his time. And the detentioon reentry is supposed to be 30 days long so why didn't he say about 30 days? 2) After talking to this lady last night then sleeping on it, it sounds like PO is lying to me or at least not being forthcoming about how long difficult child will be anywhere. They might not always tell a parent eexactly when a kid is getting transferred but they do give a fairly accurate range- such as 1 to 3 days or 2 weeks or whatever. I wonder though if the central office sent something to the Department of Juvenile Justice facility, too, and that's why this lady said what she heard isn't what I'm saying PO told me. Or is it that they heard one thing from PO and PO told me something different? I really wouldn't even mind about the detention reentry if we did know how long difficult child would really be there and it was not to exceed 60 days and was really going to be used for reunification. But I wouldn't trust this PO as far as I could throw him. He might try now to get GH ordered for after the detention time. Or he coulld wait until the day before difficult child is to be released from detention and set that date back. I'm going to try to call difficult child's counselor or the super at the facility. PO is just playing too many games. It could be that central office is only using the detention center as a very short term transitional place but PO is making it sound like it's indefinite just to instigate me. I don't know- something just isn't adding up. And why haven't I rec'd the written response central office said they were preparing to send to me so I hear it/see it from them? Who's verifying PO is tellling the truth? [/QUOTE]
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