DDD
Well-Known Member
Seriously, Janet, I don't feel competent or informed enough to encourage you to take any specific step or steps to improve your position. I know you love the kids/gkids and Tony too. I know that your brother in law is ill or seriously deficient. The choice is yours. What I might do and what you feel comfortable doing could be as different as black and white. I'm sorry. I hope you make a decision when you are feeling rested, stable and not too vulnerable. Whatever you choose...make sure that you really "get" all the possible reprercusions. You and Tony are not kids and life will continue. Will you be better off in a different location or will you be better off where you are??? Only you can decide because it is YOUR life. I wish you the best...as always. DDD