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Well, my friends, I am back and it is not good news . . .
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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 352033"><p>Is she getting any talk therapy? I believe this is vital for her well being.</p><p>But most important for you, is having her leave your home. Certainly sounds like eviction is what needs to be done.</p><p>In the end, it might help her too. Logical consequences are impacting.</p><p>Please read the detachment literature. I really like Henry Cloud's Book on Boundaries as well.</p><p>It sounds like she's got to go through another dip down the roller coaster and reach out for help before she can get better. Being a parent is a tough road. Some of us have a tougher road than others. (hugs). But you will survive. What choice do you have? And by doing the right thing, by loving yourself and by creating a healthy boundary for yourself...you will actually demonstrate/model good boundaries for her to emulate. </p><p>I would hesitate to press any charges against her (but WOULD for repeated offenses), but would NOT allow her in my home when she is abusive to me and stealing is abusive. Re-read Suz's detachment stuff for support and wishing you strength. Sending good thoughts and hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 352033"] Is she getting any talk therapy? I believe this is vital for her well being. But most important for you, is having her leave your home. Certainly sounds like eviction is what needs to be done. In the end, it might help her too. Logical consequences are impacting. Please read the detachment literature. I really like Henry Cloud's Book on Boundaries as well. It sounds like she's got to go through another dip down the roller coaster and reach out for help before she can get better. Being a parent is a tough road. Some of us have a tougher road than others. (hugs). But you will survive. What choice do you have? And by doing the right thing, by loving yourself and by creating a healthy boundary for yourself...you will actually demonstrate/model good boundaries for her to emulate. I would hesitate to press any charges against her (but WOULD for repeated offenses), but would NOT allow her in my home when she is abusive to me and stealing is abusive. Re-read Suz's detachment stuff for support and wishing you strength. Sending good thoughts and hugs. [/QUOTE]
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