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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 418724" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>This game was played so many times - I think there must be a teen difficult child manual floating around out there on a secret FB site. </p><p> </p><p>This is why we stayed in therapy - just for junk like this because WE thought we had a handle on "AND THE NEXT TIME" ----and oh we were sadly mistaken. Because they skip to chapter 12, and you're still reading the introduction. </p><p> </p><p>Fact is - you're all about "And the next time I pick you up at the mall, You will be where? (heads hung - sadly, as if really remorseful) "At the designated spot." and at what time?" 2:15 sharp, yes Mom, love you." and you leave them thinking - Boy I will be there at 2:10 - waiting, waiting, and they had better be there at 2:15 - and by GOLLY they will be - because this is the game they play....so you get comfy, and think - OH well I can trust them....but the set up is - THIS time? They really didn't WANT to break out of jail - they really ONLY NEEDED to run to Claires to get a pair of earrings, or maybe, MAYBE they really didn't need to go to the mall at all - SEE? SEE? THAT was the set up - they actually GOT YOU to take THEM to the mall and didn't need to go at all - beacause........((((((Screaming like Sam Kinnison)))))) BECAUSE...this was the set up to make you think ((((stupid parent))))) you could trust them again.....Because it is actually the NEXT time they are going to bail on you - and the NEXT TIME? The NEXT TIME? It will be when you have Dinner plans with important clients, or a meeting you HAVE to make, or a special work date you have to be at......and then????? AND THEN?????????? THAT is when they pounce, like panthers with sharpened claws.....and they say ---"MOM will you take us to the mall please? I just have a couple things I have to get. I swear I'll meet you wherever, whenever." </p><p> </p><p>Sucker that you are? You fall for it. WHY? Because you TRUSTED THEM .........the last time. (((((((((BEWARE))))))) It was a set up. You are being SET UP.......you are going to wreck your plans........THEY ARE GOING TO RUIN YOUR LIFE.....THEY CAN NOT BE TRUSTED. You should offer to go with them......PLANT A GPS IN THEIR BACK. YOU WILL NOT SEE THEM AT 2:15 at Sears.....Noooooooo you will NOT make your Dinner meeting....Noooooo YOU? You will be driving around the mall like an idiot, talking to mall cops, looking for kids that are.NOT. there. That are off somewhere discussing how cool they are for DITCHING YOU!!!!!!! And how dumb you must look sitting in a darkened mall parking lot, with crickets chirping...</p><p> </p><p>THEY ARE EVIL.......LITTLE, MANIPULATIVE......TEENAGERS..........ARRRRRRRRRGHHHHHHHHH</p><p> </p><p>And when I find that FB page that describes how to do this to parents? I will destroy it..........</p><p> </p><p>(breathe) </p><p> </p><p>But basically yeah......that's how they do it. They may even skip a time or two on the trust me thing - but that's how they do it. </p><p> </p><p>Grounding isn't good enough. If I hit the lotto? I'm buying an island and all parents can (for a fee) ship their kids there - no lights, no iPods, no computer, NOTHING. Just Gigantic Polynesian guards with WHIPS........hot sun, and gigantic rocks with tiny little hammers to make gravel. mwhahahaha.....bread and water.......</p><p> </p><p>Tell your daughter she better pray I don't hit the lotto.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 418724, member: 4964"] This game was played so many times - I think there must be a teen difficult child manual floating around out there on a secret FB site. This is why we stayed in therapy - just for junk like this because WE thought we had a handle on "AND THE NEXT TIME" ----and oh we were sadly mistaken. Because they skip to chapter 12, and you're still reading the introduction. Fact is - you're all about "And the next time I pick you up at the mall, You will be where? (heads hung - sadly, as if really remorseful) "At the designated spot." and at what time?" 2:15 sharp, yes Mom, love you." and you leave them thinking - Boy I will be there at 2:10 - waiting, waiting, and they had better be there at 2:15 - and by GOLLY they will be - because this is the game they play....so you get comfy, and think - OH well I can trust them....but the set up is - THIS time? They really didn't WANT to break out of jail - they really ONLY NEEDED to run to Claires to get a pair of earrings, or maybe, MAYBE they really didn't need to go to the mall at all - SEE? SEE? THAT was the set up - they actually GOT YOU to take THEM to the mall and didn't need to go at all - beacause........((((((Screaming like Sam Kinnison)))))) BECAUSE...this was the set up to make you think ((((stupid parent))))) you could trust them again.....Because it is actually the NEXT time they are going to bail on you - and the NEXT TIME? The NEXT TIME? It will be when you have Dinner plans with important clients, or a meeting you HAVE to make, or a special work date you have to be at......and then????? AND THEN?????????? THAT is when they pounce, like panthers with sharpened claws.....and they say ---"MOM will you take us to the mall please? I just have a couple things I have to get. I swear I'll meet you wherever, whenever." Sucker that you are? You fall for it. WHY? Because you TRUSTED THEM .........the last time. (((((((((BEWARE))))))) It was a set up. You are being SET UP.......you are going to wreck your plans........THEY ARE GOING TO RUIN YOUR LIFE.....THEY CAN NOT BE TRUSTED. You should offer to go with them......PLANT A GPS IN THEIR BACK. YOU WILL NOT SEE THEM AT 2:15 at Sears.....Noooooooo you will NOT make your Dinner meeting....Noooooo YOU? You will be driving around the mall like an idiot, talking to mall cops, looking for kids that are.NOT. there. That are off somewhere discussing how cool they are for DITCHING YOU!!!!!!! And how dumb you must look sitting in a darkened mall parking lot, with crickets chirping... THEY ARE EVIL.......LITTLE, MANIPULATIVE......TEENAGERS..........ARRRRRRRRRGHHHHHHHHH And when I find that FB page that describes how to do this to parents? I will destroy it.......... (breathe) But basically yeah......that's how they do it. They may even skip a time or two on the trust me thing - but that's how they do it. Grounding isn't good enough. If I hit the lotto? I'm buying an island and all parents can (for a fee) ship their kids there - no lights, no iPods, no computer, NOTHING. Just Gigantic Polynesian guards with WHIPS........hot sun, and gigantic rocks with tiny little hammers to make gravel. mwhahahaha.....bread and water....... Tell your daughter she better pray I don't hit the lotto. [/QUOTE]
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