Thank you all! Steely, he is pretty well mentally- we were a little shocked yesterday- and exhausted (mentally) from the stress of worrying about why we were going to court again and what was the judge going to do this time. He's happy of course- many hugs and smiles!
AOG- I don't know that this bracelet relieves me, but it does help in some ways. difficult child knows he can't go out by himself so I don't have to worry about that. He'll probably only have it on a few weeks. It's a PITA in some ways. If I'm running late with something, I'm always worried about getting him home by the time I told PO I would have him home. But, it is better than being detained. This might be a good option to suggest for your difficult child- yes, they can get permission to go to school, work, etc. (Mine will be going to day camp)
Sharon- one of my "goals" is to try to get counseling later in the day, especially if I'm looking for a new counselor anyway. Right now we are seeing one that won't make an appointment past 4:00, which doesn't sound too bad except I have to leave work by 3:00 to pick up difficult child then drive over there. difficult child's individual counselor last year would make appts at 6:00, which was good, but he only did that about 6 mos., then changed his schedule. So, I'm still working on that.
If we could get counseling later at least half the time and reduce meetings with PO (the attny said maybe we could get PO to meet difficult child at school sometimes instead of me having to take off work to bring him in), I think I can average 35 hours a week. (I still have to allow for IEP meetings, psychiatrist appts, some meetings with PO, etc.). I don't know that I can get my employer to give me full benefits with less than 40 hours per week, but I'll see if I can get medication insurance at least mostly paid for this way. Sometimes, I might be able to work 40 hours a week, but usually not because it would take supervision away from difficult child when school is in session and when I'm not comfortable that he is REAL stable, that just makes me nervous.
Anyway, this school year should start better- we don't have a custody case to deal with on top of everything else!