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<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 352177" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>I just think he knows what he is capable of doing or not doing - such as being able to follow rules. He is showing you he can NOT follow them yet. The fact that he still had the money (or most of it) is a sign to me that he does not WANT to hurt you by having no money but by actually taking it he is telling you that he can and will take the money - for whatever reason. Let's pretend he truly can not help it. He knows it is wrong but can not help but take the money. He had to have gone through so many thoughts to NOT spend it or just give it away.</p><p> </p><p>He needs tools to help him rationalize things. He needs intensive therapy. Try to imagine the thought process of looking for money, finding it, and what to do with it once he had it in hand. I think he really struggles with his thoughts. I do believe he has the ability to talk himself into doing the right things, but he has a constant battle in his mind that he is bound to lose now and then. He has to be able to learn the tools to win more within his mind. He needs help with it. His actions tell us that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 352177, member: 391"] I just think he knows what he is capable of doing or not doing - such as being able to follow rules. He is showing you he can NOT follow them yet. The fact that he still had the money (or most of it) is a sign to me that he does not WANT to hurt you by having no money but by actually taking it he is telling you that he can and will take the money - for whatever reason. Let's pretend he truly can not help it. He knows it is wrong but can not help but take the money. He had to have gone through so many thoughts to NOT spend it or just give it away. He needs tools to help him rationalize things. He needs intensive therapy. Try to imagine the thought process of looking for money, finding it, and what to do with it once he had it in hand. I think he really struggles with his thoughts. I do believe he has the ability to talk himself into doing the right things, but he has a constant battle in his mind that he is bound to lose now and then. He has to be able to learn the tools to win more within his mind. He needs help with it. His actions tell us that. [/QUOTE]
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