I just got into an argument with my husband about my daughter again. She called at little before 5am this morning stating she was coming back home because she was being put out of the lady's house that she was staying with. I told her to figure out something because coming home was NOT an option. She told me I was her mother and she has no where else to go. She was being disrespectful and demanding and I told her repeatedly, she was not going to disrespect me and coming here was not an option. She said she would sleep outside and for me to put a blanket out for her but she was coming home. I asked where the lady was and she said she was not there and that her EX-boyfriend said he didn't want her there at his mom's house and was putting her out. I told her again, she was not welcomed here and my home was not an option and she needed to figure out where she was going to go. She hung up. She called back and I didn't answer. She called back again and I picked up and she said she would be here in an hour. I told her again, that coming here was not an option and she needed to figure out where she was going to go. I told her she definitely needed to get away from her ex because I didn't know if he would or has already gotten physical with her but she would not be staying here. She repeated that she was on her way. I asked her was her disrespectful ex bringing her because he was not allowed to come to my property. She said he was bringing her. I then asked her how was she going to get to work because she needs to keep her job and she really didn't have an answer. Her job is not close to my home and I would not take her even if it was. I told her again, she needed to figure out where she was going because she will not be staying here. She said ok and that she understood. I told her she can't keep calling here because my husband has to go to work and her calls are disturbing his sleep. I have no idea if she is really coming or if this is a stunt. I'm sure it's the latter and a ploy to try to get back home. I don't want her to come but I don't want her over there with her ex who has cursed his mom(The Lady) before and called her a b**ch before and has been physical with her before. The lady put her son out but allows my daughter to stay with her. Don't know what's going on with this whole scene but it's still affecting me and my life. My husband started loudly ranting about he's not going thru this BS and how I needed to get her an apartment for 3-6 months and use the rest of the child support money to do so. My question to him was how was she going to pay rent after that if she is not going to work? He told me I needed to just give her the truck that she wrecked twice back to her so she could get to work. He told me he was tired of this and tired of worrying about her. I told him I'm not getting her or giving her nothing. The truck was a liability to me and I still have an unsettled claim (7 months old now) from one of her wrecks that I'm not sure insurance is going to completely cover. I told him I was looking for a shelter that I could take her to and that him yelling at me and barking what he thinks I should do was not helping. I told him all I needed from him was, how can I help or support in this situation. I then told him since he had all the answers, that he could find her a place and give her his car that he's not using. He told me, he'd give his car to his son but not her. I told him, I don't need his BS at this point and time and he was not helping me at all. I told him that I should not have answered the phone and I should just block her from calling period. He said no, don't do that she needs to be able to call me. The only supportive thing he said this morning was did he need to be here if the ex boyfriend decided he wanted to act up IF he dropped my daughter off. I told him to go to work. I told him she was not here and she would not be living here. He said to me, she's not back here YET.... Then he left for work. So I'm up now and this is how my morning started and I'm not sure how this is all going to play out. If she comes home this morning or today, I will be taking her somewhere. Where I don't know yet but she will NOT be staying at my home. I'm not getting her an apartment nor will she be getting the truck back. She doesn't have a bank account nor does she have ANY money saved to get an apartment, nor has she even applied to get one. I know all of this because I check her Twitter page where she broadcasts and lives her life out for public consumption. So I'm supposed to go out on a limb AGAIN for her? No sir! She found a surrogate mom in the lady she lives with. This lady is enabling her to stay in a state of limbo and not become a responsible adult. The only thing that lady has done on the positive side is to charge my daughter rent, takes her to work and allowed her to have shelter. Making her pay rent shows her how her life is going to be in the real world and that she has to work to make it. But even this set up with the lady is going to end at some point and my daughter is still going to have to sink or swim on her own at some point. I just got back from vacation and this is what I come home to. I feel like shouldn't have answered the phone this morning but when you get a call that early, you just never know if something bad has happened. She does need to leave that lady's house and get away from that nut job ex but coming here is not the answer either as just her calling is causing problems in my marriage. I need some help or ideas on what to do if she shows up. I've looked up some women's shelter options. I can call my brother to see if he can help as he's said he wanted to speak to her and possibly help. Any advice or ideas are welcomed--if she even shows up. I think this is all some stunt and game she is playing with her ex or just her TRYING TO GET BACK HERE, but I want to be ready with my plan IF she arrives today. I'm really feeling like I just need to block her number too and just be done with all the never ending drama with her. Way beyond Tired.