hi
sooo yea me again
this time easy child/difficult child issue. easy child is def. part difficult child so that's why i'm posting here. it's appropriate now.
she has alot of anger. i've always thought to myself as i've watched it grow through the years and topple over on occassion it's difficult child jealousy related, etc. life.
yet now i watch her quietly, sat back today and last night. when she gets that way she truly just loses control over her mouth and /or actions to some extent.
i have decided i will go back for second part of pyschiatric evaluation on her, i'm calling tmrw to schedule it. yet meanwhile i just watch.......
if your talking to her and dog's barking or a bell's ringing and ther'es alot going on around her she loses it. it's almost like an add trait to me. she just can't process all the outside stimuli and she just boils over. this could be on a good day by the way.
if she's trying to tell a story and you even yawn or look elsewhere again the same thing occurs.
she's angry alot.
short fuse alot.
can't multi task at all.
organization is something all typical teens struggle with yet ive also watched that worsen through the years with her
patience level is almost non existant.
she doesn't do well in school, doesn't "get" alot of stuff. brought tutors in from time to time yet doesn't seem to have desire at all which you need first of all nor does she have patience to work on it. yet she faired well till she hit 13. than we did our slow slide downward.
yet as an infant slept super well, almost too much. she was amazing baby super calm toddler super easy up till like i said 13. she was a no brainer kinda kid up till than. met all her milestons with-o issue, never wet bed, sucked a thumb or had any anxiety or seperation anxiety at all.
as of late i've noticed she won't sleep away from home at friends past 5 years. likes to be close to home. doesn't like to leave home to go to far away places at all. like friends invited her to pa to ski she turned it down. didnt' wanna go away to college didn't wanna leave home. has difficulty keeping a job, is insecure in new places and with meeting ppl.
so any thoughts? i've always thought of anger as well either a learned behavior or part of a larger pyschiatric issue or unresolved issues that have to be brought out by intensive therapy.
question is which one is she? we're talking real anger here. not just ****** off said the wrong thing. seriously blowing up kinda stuff.
she asked me again tonight for a medication. i told her why'd you stop taking the ssri it was graet for you. you were so even more focused calm. ready to begin therapy than u stopped taking it and by week and a half later she was back to this again
sooo yea me again
this time easy child/difficult child issue. easy child is def. part difficult child so that's why i'm posting here. it's appropriate now.
she has alot of anger. i've always thought to myself as i've watched it grow through the years and topple over on occassion it's difficult child jealousy related, etc. life.
yet now i watch her quietly, sat back today and last night. when she gets that way she truly just loses control over her mouth and /or actions to some extent.
i have decided i will go back for second part of pyschiatric evaluation on her, i'm calling tmrw to schedule it. yet meanwhile i just watch.......
if your talking to her and dog's barking or a bell's ringing and ther'es alot going on around her she loses it. it's almost like an add trait to me. she just can't process all the outside stimuli and she just boils over. this could be on a good day by the way.
if she's trying to tell a story and you even yawn or look elsewhere again the same thing occurs.
she's angry alot.
short fuse alot.
can't multi task at all.
organization is something all typical teens struggle with yet ive also watched that worsen through the years with her
patience level is almost non existant.
she doesn't do well in school, doesn't "get" alot of stuff. brought tutors in from time to time yet doesn't seem to have desire at all which you need first of all nor does she have patience to work on it. yet she faired well till she hit 13. than we did our slow slide downward.
yet as an infant slept super well, almost too much. she was amazing baby super calm toddler super easy up till like i said 13. she was a no brainer kinda kid up till than. met all her milestons with-o issue, never wet bed, sucked a thumb or had any anxiety or seperation anxiety at all.
as of late i've noticed she won't sleep away from home at friends past 5 years. likes to be close to home. doesn't like to leave home to go to far away places at all. like friends invited her to pa to ski she turned it down. didnt' wanna go away to college didn't wanna leave home. has difficulty keeping a job, is insecure in new places and with meeting ppl.
so any thoughts? i've always thought of anger as well either a learned behavior or part of a larger pyschiatric issue or unresolved issues that have to be brought out by intensive therapy.
question is which one is she? we're talking real anger here. not just ****** off said the wrong thing. seriously blowing up kinda stuff.
she asked me again tonight for a medication. i told her why'd you stop taking the ssri it was graet for you. you were so even more focused calm. ready to begin therapy than u stopped taking it and by week and a half later she was back to this again