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What can you tell me about pancreatic cancer?
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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 442084" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>The biopsy came back as malignant. I wish his mom would talk to me but last night when she called, easy child answered, and when she told mother in law that I was there, mother in law said, 'No, I'll wait for P (H)". H doesn't always get the info right and he doesn't understand a lot of the terminology and his mother only doles out what she wants. Argh, so frustrating. I guess the plan is to contact the cancer center near them, which is NOT where they were referred to and see about starting chemotherapy on father in law. As a lifelong advocate for difficult child, it is in my nature to do some fact finding and checking, wanting to speak with the doctors, research all options as well as assuage my IL's emotions....but alas, I am not blood and they never fully welcomed me into the family. H's sister and brother are great. I spoke with brother in law last night and he's heading to FL on Sunday, so at least there will be another set of eyes and ears there. I know that she chose H to call with info because she knew he wouldn't press her for info, pepper her with her questions, but brother in law and sister in law most definitely will. So that's it for now. Looks like we will be heading to FL end of July.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 442084, member: 2211"] The biopsy came back as malignant. I wish his mom would talk to me but last night when she called, easy child answered, and when she told mother in law that I was there, mother in law said, 'No, I'll wait for P (H)". H doesn't always get the info right and he doesn't understand a lot of the terminology and his mother only doles out what she wants. Argh, so frustrating. I guess the plan is to contact the cancer center near them, which is NOT where they were referred to and see about starting chemotherapy on father in law. As a lifelong advocate for difficult child, it is in my nature to do some fact finding and checking, wanting to speak with the doctors, research all options as well as assuage my IL's emotions....but alas, I am not blood and they never fully welcomed me into the family. H's sister and brother are great. I spoke with brother in law last night and he's heading to FL on Sunday, so at least there will be another set of eyes and ears there. I know that she chose H to call with info because she knew he wouldn't press her for info, pepper her with her questions, but brother in law and sister in law most definitely will. So that's it for now. Looks like we will be heading to FL end of July. [/QUOTE]
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