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<blockquote data-quote="TeDo" data-source="post: 599816" data-attributes="member: 15799"><p>To be perfectly honest, I would not punish easy child beyond the iPod. She is clearly just following her big sister like my little sister used to do to me. She always wanted to go where I went and do what I did. I guess she's lucky I was the good kid. easy child clearly just likes to be with her big sis and being included.</p><p></p><p>Now difficult child, I would take away ALL privileges: leaving the house for any reason without being with you or husband, using the phone, watching TV (even with the family) etc. I would be this harsh since it's not her first time. I would also pile on the chores and make a point of doing things SHE likes with the other kids WHILE she's doing those chores. The loss of all privileges is because you can't trust her to have any of them. Privileges are earned, they are not a right. Her rights are to food and housing. As for the chores, that is to work off the gas money and you and husband's time having to come and get her in the middle of the night. And even some "pain and suffering".</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry you are having to deal with all this koi. It has to be so frustrating and I really hope the neuropsychologist can help figure her out. ((((HUGS)))) to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TeDo, post: 599816, member: 15799"] To be perfectly honest, I would not punish easy child beyond the iPod. She is clearly just following her big sister like my little sister used to do to me. She always wanted to go where I went and do what I did. I guess she's lucky I was the good kid. easy child clearly just likes to be with her big sis and being included. Now difficult child, I would take away ALL privileges: leaving the house for any reason without being with you or husband, using the phone, watching TV (even with the family) etc. I would be this harsh since it's not her first time. I would also pile on the chores and make a point of doing things SHE likes with the other kids WHILE she's doing those chores. The loss of all privileges is because you can't trust her to have any of them. Privileges are earned, they are not a right. Her rights are to food and housing. As for the chores, that is to work off the gas money and you and husband's time having to come and get her in the middle of the night. And even some "pain and suffering". I am so sorry you are having to deal with all this koi. It has to be so frustrating and I really hope the neuropsychologist can help figure her out. ((((HUGS)))) to you. [/QUOTE]
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