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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 254269" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">You've had a very ugly day WSM. I can offer you my empathy as I have attachment disordered twins. It's a very ugly disorder that is often combined with other disorders (mostly PTSD).</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">Saying that, all of your difficult children actions sound so very familiar. The running, the lack of impulse control, the defiance, the lack of understanding cause & effect, rewards don't work, neither do consequences, the looking for attention in any way possible yet once that attention is found it's not enough. The cries of abuse that didn't happen. Attachment disordered children raise the bar again & again. And sadly they have no clue why. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">I can offer you many different ways to nurture your difficult child in ways that won't scare him. However, it seems you're in crisis mode; the entire family is in crisis mode. Rather than military school is there a Residential Treatment Center (RTC) setting that will take your difficult child in for treatment? Do you & husband get any type of respite at all? Believe it or not, with the right therapy things can get better. However, it sounds as though difficult child has burnt every bridge he has in your home & that's why I'm suggesting a Residential Treatment Center (RTC).</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">Sending many postive thoughts for you & yours this morning. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 254269, member: 393"] [SIZE=3][FONT=Comic Sans MS]You've had a very ugly day WSM. I can offer you my empathy as I have attachment disordered twins. It's a very ugly disorder that is often combined with other disorders (mostly PTSD). Saying that, all of your difficult children actions sound so very familiar. The running, the lack of impulse control, the defiance, the lack of understanding cause & effect, rewards don't work, neither do consequences, the looking for attention in any way possible yet once that attention is found it's not enough. The cries of abuse that didn't happen. Attachment disordered children raise the bar again & again. And sadly they have no clue why. I can offer you many different ways to nurture your difficult child in ways that won't scare him. However, it seems you're in crisis mode; the entire family is in crisis mode. Rather than military school is there a Residential Treatment Center (RTC) setting that will take your difficult child in for treatment? Do you & husband get any type of respite at all? Believe it or not, with the right therapy things can get better. However, it sounds as though difficult child has burnt every bridge he has in your home & that's why I'm suggesting a Residential Treatment Center (RTC). Sending many postive thoughts for you & yours this morning. [/FONT][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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