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What do you do when your wife/husband HATES your difficult child?
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<blockquote data-quote="Chuck" data-source="post: 8801" data-attributes="member: 252"><p>Well, its a LONG and horrible tale....</p><p></p><p>Some day soon, I will get the impulse to write it all here....</p><p></p><p>For now, difficult child is a 14 yr old female. I assumed custody after being on the left coast for most of her young life....terrible parental alienation....</p><p></p><p>I moved back to the east coast....and won custody in a few years based on educational neglect and abuse. </p><p></p><p>difficult child lived with me in our new house, and I got back together with a HS flame...</p><p></p><p>She has 2 almost easy child (in behavior anyway...one may be Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), the other is somehow learning disabled....</p><p></p><p>We moved in together a year later, and got married after another year...</p><p></p><p>difficult child was acting out, but I suspected it was from the prior environment....she seemed to be thriving in the new environment....had to "sit" on her, but she got good grades and was making good choices for friends....</p><p></p><p>Out of the blue, seemingly, I grounded her for a semi-serious infraction at school, and on her way to her room, she called the Police and claimed abuse!!!</p><p></p><p>She had been acting out with the wife, but I NEVER saw it....caused problems between wife and myself....I had no idea what was going on when I was not present...but it was pretty bad, I guess....</p><p></p><p>When difficult child claimed abuse, I sought help from diagnosis, and ended up losing custody....</p><p></p><p>diagnosis has an undiagnosed mental illness, and they have been resorting to fisticuffs when difficult child doesn't get her way....</p><p></p><p>Grades since living with diagnosis are HORRENDOUS, and difficult child is living in a runaway shelter right now...Upcoming custody hearing will be hard, as I have not even spent time with my difficult child for a full year....she hates me, refuses to acknowledge me as her Dad....</p><p></p><p>difficult child has been diagnosed with ADHD, ODD, Dystemia and possible bi-polar..</p><p></p><p>Currently she is on Adderal XR, Lexapro, Depakote and Seroquel....</p><p></p><p>Doctors think there are good results, but diagnosis and difficult child have hidden the violent tendencies from everyone until now...</p><p></p><p>wife and I will be getting counseling together, but the custody trial is soon, and she doesn't know if she wants difficult child back in the home...what a mess...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Chuck, post: 8801, member: 252"] Well, its a LONG and horrible tale.... Some day soon, I will get the impulse to write it all here.... For now, difficult child is a 14 yr old female. I assumed custody after being on the left coast for most of her young life....terrible parental alienation.... I moved back to the east coast....and won custody in a few years based on educational neglect and abuse. difficult child lived with me in our new house, and I got back together with a HS flame... She has 2 almost easy child (in behavior anyway...one may be Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), the other is somehow learning disabled.... We moved in together a year later, and got married after another year... difficult child was acting out, but I suspected it was from the prior environment....she seemed to be thriving in the new environment....had to "sit" on her, but she got good grades and was making good choices for friends.... Out of the blue, seemingly, I grounded her for a semi-serious infraction at school, and on her way to her room, she called the Police and claimed abuse!!! She had been acting out with the wife, but I NEVER saw it....caused problems between wife and myself....I had no idea what was going on when I was not present...but it was pretty bad, I guess.... When difficult child claimed abuse, I sought help from diagnosis, and ended up losing custody.... diagnosis has an undiagnosed mental illness, and they have been resorting to fisticuffs when difficult child doesn't get her way.... Grades since living with diagnosis are HORRENDOUS, and difficult child is living in a runaway shelter right now...Upcoming custody hearing will be hard, as I have not even spent time with my difficult child for a full year....she hates me, refuses to acknowledge me as her Dad.... difficult child has been diagnosed with ADHD, ODD, Dystemia and possible bi-polar.. Currently she is on Adderal XR, Lexapro, Depakote and Seroquel.... Doctors think there are good results, but diagnosis and difficult child have hidden the violent tendencies from everyone until now... wife and I will be getting counseling together, but the custody trial is soon, and she doesn't know if she wants difficult child back in the home...what a mess... [/QUOTE]
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