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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 130217" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>What does wife think of the teacher's opinion? Is she willing on any level to help you force McW into a rehab, or even to offer it when you are in court? Have either of you looked into any rehabs in your area or not in your area? It is a big financial commitment, but is wife even in a place where she admits that rehab would help him? Can you make sure you have funds YOU can access with-o her blocking you to pay for rehab? I know my bro's was about $24K, and is considered one of the less expensive ones. It was a great facility, and the support they gave was wonderful - so was the accountability. They have facilities all over the US, or so I have been told.</p><p> </p><p>Would McW go if MOMMY offered it to him with-o DADDY being aware? Could you work with her to make this an option available to him??</p><p> </p><p>The courts may or may not let rehab happen, but as he is young and this is the first offense/set of offenses (I think?) they would be more open to it than if he waits.</p><p> </p><p>You do NOT get rehab in jail in OUR county. You get time in a cell with a bunch of other guys. This is how my bro detoxed. He calls it X County Betty Ford. It sounds like a horrendous experience. But it was what he needed to be able to then work his program through rehab and after in AA.</p><p> </p><p>I think his behavior has been screaming for help for a long time. But it is too late to force him - unless the person forcing is the judge.</p><p> </p><p>Would Sarge be willing to talk to him about rehab? Any other adult male he respects that isn't you?</p><p> </p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 130217, member: 1233"] What does wife think of the teacher's opinion? Is she willing on any level to help you force McW into a rehab, or even to offer it when you are in court? Have either of you looked into any rehabs in your area or not in your area? It is a big financial commitment, but is wife even in a place where she admits that rehab would help him? Can you make sure you have funds YOU can access with-o her blocking you to pay for rehab? I know my bro's was about $24K, and is considered one of the less expensive ones. It was a great facility, and the support they gave was wonderful - so was the accountability. They have facilities all over the US, or so I have been told. Would McW go if MOMMY offered it to him with-o DADDY being aware? Could you work with her to make this an option available to him?? The courts may or may not let rehab happen, but as he is young and this is the first offense/set of offenses (I think?) they would be more open to it than if he waits. You do NOT get rehab in jail in OUR county. You get time in a cell with a bunch of other guys. This is how my bro detoxed. He calls it X County Betty Ford. It sounds like a horrendous experience. But it was what he needed to be able to then work his program through rehab and after in AA. I think his behavior has been screaming for help for a long time. But it is too late to force him - unless the person forcing is the judge. Would Sarge be willing to talk to him about rehab? Any other adult male he respects that isn't you? Susie [/QUOTE]
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