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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 11841" data-attributes="member: 29"><p>I agree with Karen, Alyssa. Safety is critical. </p><p></p><p>How long has difficult child been maintaining? </p><p></p><p>Has it been long enough to develop a track record for how he is dealing with stress now as opposed to then? </p><p></p><p>Have you changed the locks to your home since he left so he doesn't have access when you're not there?</p><p></p><p>Is there a safety plan for easy child in case you need it in the future?</p><p></p><p>Like Karen asked, does husband agree? Unity is critical here.</p><p></p><p>When my ex and I separated I was terrified of Rob finding out where I lived. He was unstable, and squirrelly, and scary. It took a full 6 months for me to give him my address (he had my phone number all along but my address was not listed with the phone company)....and even longer before I would be alone with him. When we saw each other it was in his town, not mine.</p><p></p><p>As you can see, I err on the side of precaution.....too many years of getting (proverbially) kicked in the teeth by difficult child.</p><p></p><p>Fortunately, most decisions can be changed as situations change. Best of luck with your decision!</p><p></p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 11841, member: 29"] I agree with Karen, Alyssa. Safety is critical. How long has difficult child been maintaining? Has it been long enough to develop a track record for how he is dealing with stress now as opposed to then? Have you changed the locks to your home since he left so he doesn't have access when you're not there? Is there a safety plan for easy child in case you need it in the future? Like Karen asked, does husband agree? Unity is critical here. When my ex and I separated I was terrified of Rob finding out where I lived. He was unstable, and squirrelly, and scary. It took a full 6 months for me to give him my address (he had my phone number all along but my address was not listed with the phone company)....and even longer before I would be alone with him. When we saw each other it was in his town, not mine. As you can see, I err on the side of precaution.....too many years of getting (proverbially) kicked in the teeth by difficult child. Fortunately, most decisions can be changed as situations change. Best of luck with your decision! Suz [/QUOTE]
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