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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 694690" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>This is most likely the case. I am not even sure how long she has been on the stuff, but do realize the longer the use, the more damage.</p><p></p><p> Yes, this is true, SK, it is a different loss. It was hard when my dad passed, I did lean on my siblings. Grief comes in many layers of intensity.</p><p> I am trying as best can to take care of myself. The big thing I keep telling myself is to be patient, don't rush into things. It is another kind of FOG with the loss of a mate.</p><p> I am okay with a grief support group, just don't have the time or energy right now. There is so much business to take care of.</p><p>Thank you Savior. I think for Blossom, in her grief she wants a sense of normalcy, a healing for the family. I don't blame her. I think we are all reaching for peace and comfort, and after losing her dad, what she wants is for the family to be together. That's her peace and comfort. It would be nice if things were easy.......breathing room. Things are as they are, wish they weren't but they just are. Sigh. So, I shall have to find a way through<em> what is</em>, towards peace.</p><p>I am the same. So, I need to step back, rather than forward where my two are concerned. I don't feel badly about it, either. Well, today at least....... I am going to bide my time and wait. Wait for them to get tired of the same ole same ole. Lord knows I am tired of it.</p><p>Thank you for your thoughts and kind words. </p><p>It means so much to be able to come here and read responses and sort through the feelings. </p><p>Leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 694690, member: 19522"] This is most likely the case. I am not even sure how long she has been on the stuff, but do realize the longer the use, the more damage. Yes, this is true, SK, it is a different loss. It was hard when my dad passed, I did lean on my siblings. Grief comes in many layers of intensity. I am trying as best can to take care of myself. The big thing I keep telling myself is to be patient, don't rush into things. It is another kind of FOG with the loss of a mate. I am okay with a grief support group, just don't have the time or energy right now. There is so much business to take care of. Thank you Savior. I think for Blossom, in her grief she wants a sense of normalcy, a healing for the family. I don't blame her. I think we are all reaching for peace and comfort, and after losing her dad, what she wants is for the family to be together. That's her peace and comfort. It would be nice if things were easy.......breathing room. Things are as they are, wish they weren't but they just are. Sigh. So, I shall have to find a way through[I] what is[/I], towards peace. I am the same. So, I need to step back, rather than forward where my two are concerned. I don't feel badly about it, either. Well, today at least....... I am going to bide my time and wait. Wait for them to get tired of the same ole same ole. Lord knows I am tired of it. Thank you for your thoughts and kind words. It means so much to be able to come here and read responses and sort through the feelings. Leafy [/QUOTE]
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