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<blockquote data-quote="WSM" data-source="post: 306453" data-attributes="member: 5169"><p>We've never gotten any results from a CPS investigation, although I have recently sent a notarized request. CPS usually just asks a question or two, takes a picture of all the kids, and then disappears, and we don't ever get any confirmation that it's unfounded. Just have to wait and see if we are arrested I guess. </p><p> </p><p>Once we had one really bizarre angry CPS lady who bullied us even tho we and she knew the allegations were unfounded (her supervisors took over the case), but she kept saying, "I know something's going on in that house, I know you are abusing him" (to me). </p><p> </p><p>I'm so glad I'm done with that life.</p><p> </p><p>I decided to call the local woman's shelter and ask advice. They gave me the number to the domestic violence advocate. I didn't know such a thing existed. I put in a call to them, left a voice mail message and hope they will get back to me. I guess if worst comes to worst, I'll just tell the judge right in front of husband that me and my minor child and other son are witnesses in a CPS case against husband and it scares me to have him living in the house with my sons and myself when he knows we are witnesses against him. My guess is a judge would see the danger in that. But I'd really, REALLY rather husband didn't know we are involved or that an investigation is going on, if one is, (or maybe the investigation is just continued from when difficult child made his first allegation 4 years ago).</p><p> </p><p>My head is just spinning and my life seems so out of control right now. I have lists: bankruptcy concerns, foreclosure concerns, divorce concerns, switching banks and direct deposits (because the foreclosure bank is also our savings bank), restraining order concerns, getting all the utilities switched to my name as he shuts off our services (DirecTV is so incompetent). Getting a motion in to prevent him from removing us from his health insurance, switching the car insurance. Selling the lease on his car which is in my name, a root canal (just what I need right now), getting my son to the DMV for his driver's permit (he's waited a month now, doesn't want to wait any more), putting two of my cars into my sons' name so they aren't marital property (my kids bought them from me for $3500 and $2000 respectively but they are cheaper to insure in my name so they weren't registered yet, I don't want husband to suddenly claim them), enroll in the EAP at work, pay the dorm fees for son at college and figure out what's going on with his VA stipend, fill out FAFSAs for two of my kids...</p><p> </p><p>Oh and I have to work too and go to the grocery and start separating out husband's crapp from mine. And figure out where we are going to live when we move out and how much I'm going to have...</p><p> </p><p>I am just spinning in all directions right now. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/anxious.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":anxious:" title="anxious :anxious:" data-shortname=":anxious:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WSM, post: 306453, member: 5169"] We've never gotten any results from a CPS investigation, although I have recently sent a notarized request. CPS usually just asks a question or two, takes a picture of all the kids, and then disappears, and we don't ever get any confirmation that it's unfounded. Just have to wait and see if we are arrested I guess. Once we had one really bizarre angry CPS lady who bullied us even tho we and she knew the allegations were unfounded (her supervisors took over the case), but she kept saying, "I know something's going on in that house, I know you are abusing him" (to me). I'm so glad I'm done with that life. I decided to call the local woman's shelter and ask advice. They gave me the number to the domestic violence advocate. I didn't know such a thing existed. I put in a call to them, left a voice mail message and hope they will get back to me. I guess if worst comes to worst, I'll just tell the judge right in front of husband that me and my minor child and other son are witnesses in a CPS case against husband and it scares me to have him living in the house with my sons and myself when he knows we are witnesses against him. My guess is a judge would see the danger in that. But I'd really, REALLY rather husband didn't know we are involved or that an investigation is going on, if one is, (or maybe the investigation is just continued from when difficult child made his first allegation 4 years ago). My head is just spinning and my life seems so out of control right now. I have lists: bankruptcy concerns, foreclosure concerns, divorce concerns, switching banks and direct deposits (because the foreclosure bank is also our savings bank), restraining order concerns, getting all the utilities switched to my name as he shuts off our services (DirecTV is so incompetent). Getting a motion in to prevent him from removing us from his health insurance, switching the car insurance. Selling the lease on his car which is in my name, a root canal (just what I need right now), getting my son to the DMV for his driver's permit (he's waited a month now, doesn't want to wait any more), putting two of my cars into my sons' name so they aren't marital property (my kids bought them from me for $3500 and $2000 respectively but they are cheaper to insure in my name so they weren't registered yet, I don't want husband to suddenly claim them), enroll in the EAP at work, pay the dorm fees for son at college and figure out what's going on with his VA stipend, fill out FAFSAs for two of my kids... Oh and I have to work too and go to the grocery and start separating out husband's crapp from mine. And figure out where we are going to live when we move out and how much I'm going to have... I am just spinning in all directions right now. :anxious: [/QUOTE]
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