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What have i done so wrong to make my adult daughter dislike me so much?
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<blockquote data-quote="Lioness" data-source="post: 650180" data-attributes="member: 18827"><p>I know how you feel. I have always made a fuss of my kids birthdays, parties etc days out as I have never had a birthday party in my whole life. I had my first birthday cake just three years ago with my name on it, and that was my best friend who organized that! I am 51 years old. The last two years my husband as tried to make my birthday special. One year I was on crutches and I needed a lift from the hospital and my daughter said she would pick me up. I waited 45 minutes and gave up got a taxi that I couldn't afford. I never even mentioned it to her, as she texted me by "accident" a horrible message that was intended for her friend, about me being needy and she is sick of my faking my injury. She said loads of horrible things and mistakenly sent it to me! After that she didn't speak to me for three weeks. I never even bothered discussing this with her. I was an inconvenience, yet if she breaks a nail she wants me to fix it. This was several days before my birthday. I had torn my ligament and it was extremely painful. I live in the UK and will go to my doctor on Monday, for sure to get help. I need to be a stronger person and toughen this situation out. I have so many stories of her nasty behaviour towards me. I have only spoken about the tip of it all. Maybe I do need help, as I have dismissed it all as being in the past. Living in hope that we had gotten to a better place, but I was deluded. Do you think that I should buy the borderline personality book Walking on Eggshells and give it to her? Or is that too antagonistic? x</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lioness, post: 650180, member: 18827"] I know how you feel. I have always made a fuss of my kids birthdays, parties etc days out as I have never had a birthday party in my whole life. I had my first birthday cake just three years ago with my name on it, and that was my best friend who organized that! I am 51 years old. The last two years my husband as tried to make my birthday special. One year I was on crutches and I needed a lift from the hospital and my daughter said she would pick me up. I waited 45 minutes and gave up got a taxi that I couldn't afford. I never even mentioned it to her, as she texted me by "accident" a horrible message that was intended for her friend, about me being needy and she is sick of my faking my injury. She said loads of horrible things and mistakenly sent it to me! After that she didn't speak to me for three weeks. I never even bothered discussing this with her. I was an inconvenience, yet if she breaks a nail she wants me to fix it. This was several days before my birthday. I had torn my ligament and it was extremely painful. I live in the UK and will go to my doctor on Monday, for sure to get help. I need to be a stronger person and toughen this situation out. I have so many stories of her nasty behaviour towards me. I have only spoken about the tip of it all. Maybe I do need help, as I have dismissed it all as being in the past. Living in hope that we had gotten to a better place, but I was deluded. Do you think that I should buy the borderline personality book Walking on Eggshells and give it to her? Or is that too antagonistic? x [/QUOTE]
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