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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 296202" data-attributes="member: 29"><p>Can you hear me screaming NONONONONONO!!!????</p><p> </p><p>Okay, I'll take a deep breath....or three.</p><p> </p><p>Do not....I repeat, do NOT let him move back in this way.</p><p> </p><p>The way you have described it, HE is calling the shots. If what you have written is accurate, then NO WAY, NO HOW should he be allowed back now.</p><p> </p><p>You said yourself that your husband doesn't want him back. You said yourself that your easy child doesn't want him back, and you admit that you are in a "fog."</p><p> </p><p>Nope. No way.</p><p> </p><p>I don't see that he has done anything other than be "nice" for a couple of visits to earn his way back home. "I miss my house"---well, too bad, honey. It isn't your house, it's MY house and your father's house.</p><p> </p><p>You don't even know WHY he wants to come home. And you don't know what happened at your sister's to make him want to come home again.</p><p> </p><p>Nope. No way. I'm sorry. As you have written it, this is a recipe for disaster because no one is being honest with any of the players here....not him, not your sister, not even you.</p><p> </p><p>I would insist upon many talks. I would insist to be included in his therapy. I would insist upon a written contract/lease agreement with terms and conditions spelled out before I would even remotely consider the <em>possibility</em> of him coming back to YOUR home.</p><p> </p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 296202, member: 29"] Can you hear me screaming NONONONONONO!!!???? Okay, I'll take a deep breath....or three. Do not....I repeat, do NOT let him move back in this way. The way you have described it, HE is calling the shots. If what you have written is accurate, then NO WAY, NO HOW should he be allowed back now. You said yourself that your husband doesn't want him back. You said yourself that your easy child doesn't want him back, and you admit that you are in a "fog." Nope. No way. I don't see that he has done anything other than be "nice" for a couple of visits to earn his way back home. "I miss my house"---well, too bad, honey. It isn't your house, it's MY house and your father's house. You don't even know WHY he wants to come home. And you don't know what happened at your sister's to make him want to come home again. Nope. No way. I'm sorry. As you have written it, this is a recipe for disaster because no one is being honest with any of the players here....not him, not your sister, not even you. I would insist upon many talks. I would insist to be included in his therapy. I would insist upon a written contract/lease agreement with terms and conditions spelled out before I would even remotely consider the [I]possibility[/I] of him coming back to YOUR home. Suz [/QUOTE]
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