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<blockquote data-quote="Andy" data-source="post: 296211" data-attributes="member: 5096"><p>Do not let him come back without the answers you are seeking. He is still calling the shots and if you allow him to return without the truth of why he wants back, he will continue to run your home.</p><p> </p><p>If husband and easy child are not ready for his return than it is a no go for sure.</p><p> </p><p>"difficult child, I am pleased to hear that you miss what you left behind. However, the reason you are not in this home is too serious for you to just walk back in. Some problems need more than time to dissolve. We all need to work together (husband, easy child, you, and I) to resolve this issue. We all need to know what can be expected from each of us, how we will address misunderstandings, how we can trust that you will live up to your responsibilities including respect of husband and easy child and me."</p><p> </p><p>"If you want to return home, it is time to get to work now and show everyone that you can be responsible and respectful. One priority would be to iron out differences with husband. Are you ready to start? We can also make a list of items to work on."</p><p> </p><p>Then, talk to his therapist to get some family counseling.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy, post: 296211, member: 5096"] Do not let him come back without the answers you are seeking. He is still calling the shots and if you allow him to return without the truth of why he wants back, he will continue to run your home. If husband and easy child are not ready for his return than it is a no go for sure. "difficult child, I am pleased to hear that you miss what you left behind. However, the reason you are not in this home is too serious for you to just walk back in. Some problems need more than time to dissolve. We all need to work together (husband, easy child, you, and I) to resolve this issue. We all need to know what can be expected from each of us, how we will address misunderstandings, how we can trust that you will live up to your responsibilities including respect of husband and easy child and me." "If you want to return home, it is time to get to work now and show everyone that you can be responsible and respectful. One priority would be to iron out differences with husband. Are you ready to start? We can also make a list of items to work on." Then, talk to his therapist to get some family counseling. [/QUOTE]
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