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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 668086" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Consider that you may put more importance on the holiday than he does as well. If you and Jaabber go to a family holiday, would he not be allowed to show up if he wanted to? If he doesn't want to, that's his choice.</p><p></p><p>He is well aware that he is burning bridges as far as good relationships with family. You said he is bright. He knows. Apparently, he doesn't care.</p><p></p><p>If he ever totally straightens out, I'm sure the family will forgive him completely if he is honestly contrite and sorry.</p><p></p><p>One thing I learned. I can't control my grown kids and what they do and don't take responsibility for what they do. I can't control my family members or friends either...or enemies <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /> </p><p></p><p>All you have control over is yourself. And you have NOTHING to be ashamed of. You are a good person.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 668086, member: 1550"] Consider that you may put more importance on the holiday than he does as well. If you and Jaabber go to a family holiday, would he not be allowed to show up if he wanted to? If he doesn't want to, that's his choice. He is well aware that he is burning bridges as far as good relationships with family. You said he is bright. He knows. Apparently, he doesn't care. If he ever totally straightens out, I'm sure the family will forgive him completely if he is honestly contrite and sorry. One thing I learned. I can't control my grown kids and what they do and don't take responsibility for what they do. I can't control my family members or friends either...or enemies ;) All you have control over is yourself. And you have NOTHING to be ashamed of. You are a good person. [/QUOTE]
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