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What is my responsibility???????
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<blockquote data-quote="CrazyinVA" data-source="post: 257404" data-attributes="member: 1157"><p>Detaching is hard, and it takes practice. A slip is inevitable, and the others are right, at leaset it was only a $10 slip. The progress I see is that you RECOGNIZE it as a slip and a mistake, where in the past, you might have made excuses for why you gave it to him. Give yourself credit for that... it's big. </p><p></p><p>Now that you know what buttons he pushed to get you to break down and give him the $10, you can be more aware of those next time, and be a little bit stronger and able to say NO. </p><p></p><p>What is your responsbility? Absolutely nothing when it comes to his recovery. Becuase it is HIS recovery, not yours. You are only responsible for yourself and your actions, not his.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CrazyinVA, post: 257404, member: 1157"] Detaching is hard, and it takes practice. A slip is inevitable, and the others are right, at leaset it was only a $10 slip. The progress I see is that you RECOGNIZE it as a slip and a mistake, where in the past, you might have made excuses for why you gave it to him. Give yourself credit for that... it's big. Now that you know what buttons he pushed to get you to break down and give him the $10, you can be more aware of those next time, and be a little bit stronger and able to say NO. What is your responsbility? Absolutely nothing when it comes to his recovery. Becuase it is HIS recovery, not yours. You are only responsible for yourself and your actions, not his. [/QUOTE]
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