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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 472266" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>It is very true that she is supposed to do 90 meetings in 90 days and has to be able to call someone. It is very reasonable to want to stay with you until the other place opens up. I don't know her, though, and couldn't possibly be able to determine if she's just giving you lip service right now, or even if she means all this now, if she'll stick with it.</p><p></p><p>I guess you just need to decide if you want to and can give her this chance. It does sound to me like her staying with you for 2 weeks and having a phone nearby, 24/7, is her best chance for making it if she is continuing to go to meetings and does move on to the halfway house. But, since I don't know all your hx with her, I sure wouldn't blame you if you just can't or feel like you don't want to deal with more difficult child stuff. Or, if you feeli like there is so much chaos with her living with you even for 2 weeks that it would lessen her chances AND make you crazy.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 472266, member: 3699"] It is very true that she is supposed to do 90 meetings in 90 days and has to be able to call someone. It is very reasonable to want to stay with you until the other place opens up. I don't know her, though, and couldn't possibly be able to determine if she's just giving you lip service right now, or even if she means all this now, if she'll stick with it. I guess you just need to decide if you want to and can give her this chance. It does sound to me like her staying with you for 2 weeks and having a phone nearby, 24/7, is her best chance for making it if she is continuing to go to meetings and does move on to the halfway house. But, since I don't know all your hx with her, I sure wouldn't blame you if you just can't or feel like you don't want to deal with more difficult child stuff. Or, if you feeli like there is so much chaos with her living with you even for 2 weeks that it would lessen her chances AND make you crazy. [/QUOTE]
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