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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 472276" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>About the living arrangements? Sorry I must disagree with everyone else, except for <strong>Janet</strong>'s suggestion of a hotel room. NOT coming home to live with you is something you repeatedly posted on here that was a firm and clear boundary. Whatever financial assistance you were to offer was fuzzy math. Going backwards and allowing her home sends a clear message that you will not abide by any boundaries you set. While in some circumstances financial assistance can be enabling, in my opinion it's a much better prospect than allowing her home. If it comes to it, in my opinion cutting off the money flow is easier than kicking someone out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 472276, member: 11965"] About the living arrangements? Sorry I must disagree with everyone else, except for [B]Janet[/B]'s suggestion of a hotel room. NOT coming home to live with you is something you repeatedly posted on here that was a firm and clear boundary. Whatever financial assistance you were to offer was fuzzy math. Going backwards and allowing her home sends a clear message that you will not abide by any boundaries you set. While in some circumstances financial assistance can be enabling, in my opinion it's a much better prospect than allowing her home. If it comes to it, in my opinion cutting off the money flow is easier than kicking someone out. [/QUOTE]
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