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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 472384" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>Kathy I'm so sorry. The treatment center difficult child was in helped with that because they had sunday family day where families came in and they split the residents up in group and there were maybe 8-10 families in a group with a counselor. The entire day was spent allowing families to tell their person what their disease has done to them and the family. By the time she left there we had attended 9 such sessions and she was under no illusion as to how we felt or why. She was forced to see that it was her behavior and actions that caused us to not trust her or to guard against getting hurt any further.</p><p></p><p>How do you feel about writing her a letter and saying those things to her. Let her know you love her and want to support her sobriety but that her former actions have made it impossible for you to trust her or for you to allow her to manipulate you any further. That it will take time for trust to build up again and that it is up to her now to prove that she is serious about her recovery.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 472384, member: 59"] Kathy I'm so sorry. The treatment center difficult child was in helped with that because they had sunday family day where families came in and they split the residents up in group and there were maybe 8-10 families in a group with a counselor. The entire day was spent allowing families to tell their person what their disease has done to them and the family. By the time she left there we had attended 9 such sessions and she was under no illusion as to how we felt or why. She was forced to see that it was her behavior and actions that caused us to not trust her or to guard against getting hurt any further. How do you feel about writing her a letter and saying those things to her. Let her know you love her and want to support her sobriety but that her former actions have made it impossible for you to trust her or for you to allow her to manipulate you any further. That it will take time for trust to build up again and that it is up to her now to prove that she is serious about her recovery. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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