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What is strength? Enduring or Leaving a job.
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 695885" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Some article online said to say this. I don't like it, but I can see the advisability of not responding aggressively to him. To give him the benefit of the doubt-that he made a mistake, that he will not make again.</p><p></p><p>“When you say X, it makes me feel [uncomfortable, like I’m being attacked, like you want for me to take this personally]” and then document that conversation in an email.</p><p></p><p>So here is another choice.</p><p></p><p>g. I feel uncomfortable with the way you are talking to me. I understand what you are trying to say. And leave. (and leave it at that.)</p><p></p><p>h. just say: I understand what you are trying to say but I feel uncomfortable with the way you are saying it. (And leave.)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 695885, member: 18958"] Some article online said to say this. I don't like it, but I can see the advisability of not responding aggressively to him. To give him the benefit of the doubt-that he made a mistake, that he will not make again. “When you say X, it makes me feel [uncomfortable, like I’m being attacked, like you want for me to take this personally]” and then document that conversation in an email. So here is another choice. g. I feel uncomfortable with the way you are talking to me. I understand what you are trying to say. And leave. (and leave it at that.) h. just say: I understand what you are trying to say but I feel uncomfortable with the way you are saying it. (And leave.) [/QUOTE]
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