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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 184588" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>Steely, you do really need to listen to your heart on this one and make the best decision that you can live with. Think about each decision, and listen to how your heart reacts when you contemplate it. That will guide you.</p><p></p><p>As for your parents...don't let them push you around. They ARE being horrible, but they have been horrible to you before. As you said, H couldn't stand your parents, and they don't have a good track record of being soft and gentle and supportive to you either. When you need their love and support the most, when you should be pulling together as a family to help each other through your grief, they are either leaving you out in the cold or expecting you to prop them up.</p><p></p><p>Think about what you want and what you can live with. Think about what H would want you to do, but don't let your parents behaviour push you in a direction you don't want to go.</p><p></p><p>{{{HUGS}}} Steely. I can't imagine how hard this all is. It's beyond comprehension.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 184588, member: 3907"] Steely, you do really need to listen to your heart on this one and make the best decision that you can live with. Think about each decision, and listen to how your heart reacts when you contemplate it. That will guide you. As for your parents...don't let them push you around. They ARE being horrible, but they have been horrible to you before. As you said, H couldn't stand your parents, and they don't have a good track record of being soft and gentle and supportive to you either. When you need their love and support the most, when you should be pulling together as a family to help each other through your grief, they are either leaving you out in the cold or expecting you to prop them up. Think about what you want and what you can live with. Think about what H would want you to do, but don't let your parents behaviour push you in a direction you don't want to go. {{{HUGS}}} Steely. I can't imagine how hard this all is. It's beyond comprehension. [/QUOTE]
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